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katy

Posts:8

12/09/2010 9:37 PM
this is awkard but me and my boyfriend madeout and were both ok with it. but its a long distance relationship. how do i know if he just doesnt want me for the physical stuff,cause in the book he said that guys will make out with just about any girl and i am a bit confused...

Lucky Albatross User is Offline

Posts:176

12/09/2010 11:50 PM
Simple, does he act noticably different around you? Is he charming or does he lay it on a bit thick? Does he trouble with eye contact? If not does he look you in the eyes or is he more concerned with looking you over? If you really look, people can't hide it if they have legitimate feelings for someone. Probably the simplest way to find out, talk to him about it. I know you don't want to chat him up about waiting and boundaries and whatnot, but it's obviously bothering you and if he truly does care he'll respect your decision. Welcome mon amie, and hope that helps somewhat!

One step at time, I trust these feet of mine, To carry me on to where I belong. Mike Zito

dc_88keys4christ User is Offline

Posts:0

12/10/2010 2:54 PM
Welcome, Katy! Ummm... It sounds like deep down, you WERE'NT okay with it. How old are both of you? I'd say just talk to him about it. What he tells you will hopefully make it obvious as to whether or not he's worth sticking to in this relationship! Hope that helps!

katy

Posts:8

12/11/2010 4:10 PM
im 14 and hes 16.ijust dont want to lose him but idk if im ready for a relationship yet...

JoJo

Posts:1670

12/23/2010 12:38 AM
at your age, hormones are flying 24/7. I know right now you think that you'll die if you lose him, but trust me, later on you'll understand this stuff not all guys will date lots of girls, though most do... (Well, guys I know anyways) idk it just depends. and ldr's are kinda hard... been in 2 special friend relationships long distance, and it sucked... mainly cuz the dude couldn't handle it... i'd say if you're really worried, ask him what his standards are etc and then evaluate from there?

Turn up the music Turn it up loud Take a few chances Let it all out 'Cause you won't regret it Lookin' back from where you have been 'Cause it's not who you knew And it's not what you did It's how you live .-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-. God Bless! Mwah XOXO JoJo

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