Holly :)
Posts:10
 |
| 12/03/2008 3:43 PM |
|
| How do you tell a guy that you like him? |
|
|
|
|
JoJo
Posts:1657
|
| 12/03/2008 4:21 PM |
|
Usually, I'd let the guy say something first. Guy's like the challange and may be put off if the girl says something first... (and iot may also seem clingy, or so i've been told...)
But if you do want to tell him, tell him to his face. He'd rather hear it in person then have to hear it through a friend.
A guy would probably answer this question better though... |
|
Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.
God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
JoJo |
|
|
artyprincess
Posts:224
|
| 12/04/2008 5:00 AM |
|
| I agree Jojo. wait and see what the guys on here say. From other replies to questions similar to these, I'd say DON'T tell him. Let him make the first move. |
|
God Can. |
|
|
emilyjanelle
Posts:510
|
| 12/04/2008 9:22 PM |
|
don't make the first move and don't tell him. major turn off. the guys will all tell you this, guaranteed. that's not to say lock yourself in your house and wait for him to come around with a bouquet of flowers and the wedding ring. if only it were that easy! what i'm saying is, guys were made to be the pursuer. we are supposed to be pursued. there's no other way around it. if we try to do it differently, it almost always doesn't work out.
[: |
|
You may as well come quiet.
- Police Maxim |
|
|
wjr1991
Posts:232
|
| 12/05/2008 11:16 AM |
|
Exactly, Jojo and Emily. Nothing beyond moderate and exclusive "flirting" will get any desirable results. (Note: the use of flirting is pretty well butchered now... it used to mean that you were pretending you "liked" someone... now it can just mean that you're acting like you do, whether you are just pretending, or really do "like" him. That is really the only caveat I put in the "don't flirt" line of thought... there's nothing wrong with acting like you "like" a guy if you really do- we just sometimes call that flirting.)
Really, telling him is not something you want to do- it is a turn-off. All I can say is remain available for him, and him only- but please, don't try to push it to his ear that you're waiting for him. If he figures it out, it's attractive and is a sort of appropriate "come hither" or challenge to pursue... if he gets told you're available for him, it takes the sport out of it, and he won't "take the bait" or whatever you want to call it. Let him be the man.
Hope that helps! |
|
Most of the nearly two billion children in the developing world have inadequate access to dinosaurs. Some receive no paleontology training at all. One in three has never even seen a dinosaur in person.
OVPC is an organization providing a means to an end - an end that sees children in even the most remote regions of the globe being given the motivation and adrenaline to tap into their own potential, identify with the survival needs of a global dinosaur-driven culture, and to contribute to a paleontological world community.
Support the cause at velociraptorz.org |
|
|
**Jes :-)
Posts:154
|
| 12/09/2008 4:01 PM |
|
i no how you feel! but i agree that it's defiantly better to wait for the guy to ask. even tho it does seem like a long wait! but if you do get married who wood you want to have as the leader? probably your husband, right! but if you make the first then he might give in and not really take up leadership and then you might end up being the leader. so ya i'd say wait till he makes the first move. you're not alone in that situation! remember while you're are waiting God is working!
|
|
|
|
|
masterchief
Posts:5
|
| 01/24/2009 3:00 PM |
|
most guys like pursuing but not all of them get the clues set you know there for them.
id say everyones right on let the guy come to you. idk if the ladies know it or not but the more the guy know s the gurl then he'll chase but if he doesnt know then its kinda like were waitin for somethin to happen. guys are clueless as it is |
|
|
|
|
JoJo
Posts:1657
|
| 01/26/2009 7:09 PM |
|
LOL haha its so true!!!
I think I've posted examples before of how I've done something that, to a girl, would be so obviously hinting that I like someone, but they totally didnt pickup on it aye... I've kinda given up on trying to hint stuff to people lol.
But one question is... How would you kinda let the guy know youre kinda interested...
Like in a way that wouldnt freak him out, especially if he only sees you as a friend??
Sorry, I tend to ask alot of questions cuz I think girls are wondering the same thing, but most dont actually want to ask...  |
|
Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.
God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
JoJo |
|
|
MyLifeHisWill
Posts:184
|
| 02/12/2009 10:35 AM |
|
| Wait for the guy to ask!!!! My bestie actually told on me and told my now-boy that i liked him - but it took almost three months for him to finally admitt to liking me back. And thats when the relationship went somewhere. Wait on the guy - dont pursue! I liked him for a good year before anything more happened - and now we have a wonderfully pure and God-centered relationship. Wait. It works. |
|
I don't want to just "live" I want to experience life. |
|
|