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LindseyUser is Offline

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08/23/2009 3:52 PM  
How do you know if a guy respects you?
LindseyUser is Offline

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08/23/2009 4:32 PM  
Now days its really hard to be respected by the guys at your school.You could tell them over and over again to stop making inapropriate comments and they do it again.
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08/23/2009 6:00 PM  
I know what you mean Lindsey! I hate it.. guys ,most I don't even know, constantly are yelling and saying inappropriate things to me and there is no way to stop it. Blah! But... I could really care less if those type of guys respect me because they don't even know me. What I do is just ignore them because by ignoring them it gives them no encouragement. I've found that getting angry and telling them to shut up only encourages them. Hope this helps some.:)
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08/23/2009 6:18 PM  
as soon as he is willing 2 give up something he loves 4 ur happiness....personally if a guy is willing 2 sacrifice his huge God given testosterone level and is willing 2 just hang out w/o being turned on thats a pretty good sign...haha
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08/27/2009 12:58 AM  
I think that if a guy respects you than he will 'treat you right'. He wont call you names or pick on you or tease you(unless being playful because guys do that) He will listen to you and respect what you ask of him such as:

You say : im not comfortable with holding hands yet so can we just take it a little slower?

He SHOULD say : Ok im fine with that(or something to that matter)

he shouldnt get mad or anything if he respects you and what you think.

-Ash<3
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08/27/2009 6:58 PM  
If a guy ever uses the line "if you love me you'll do *insert whatever here*" then you should say "If you respect me, you'll back off!!!" lol don't ever be pressured into doing something you don;t wanna do!

Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live

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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
JoJo
LindseyUser is Offline

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08/28/2009 4:13 AM  
Thanks so much for the advice all of you!!!!!!
Lindsey*
Ash:)User is Offline

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08/28/2009 4:35 AM  
Ok i totally agree with what JoJo said!!! Thats also true i mean then you know that the only reason he wants you is for your body, not you!!! And those are the kind of guys that you have to watch out for because you will end up getting hurt by them!!! 

-Ash<3
LindseyUser is Offline

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08/28/2009 10:13 AM  
Most of the guys in my school are so immature and they only want a girl friend for kissing, holding hands, etc.But the good guys want you for your heart and that is the kinda guy i'am looking for.Dont ever settle for less.
-Lindsey*
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08/28/2009 10:15 AM  
Oh yeah...i am okay with holding hands though.
-Lindsey*
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