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Ash:)

Posts:22

09/11/2009 2:11 PM
Ok im in a good and bad situation! So this guy i liked and who liked me back asked me to Homecoming, and i said yes. We have alot in common so it seemed right and i mean he's really nice. Then, he asked me out and i said yes. The only thing is that every girl he has dated so far, they have only dated for 1 month. I want us to last longer than that so what should i do? I just dont want to be another one month girl. . . So what should i do???

-Ash<3

Rose

Posts:135

09/11/2009 4:39 PM
I'd say just pray about it and ask God to let His will be done in your life. I wouldn't go into the relationship planning how to keep him longer. Instead, put your relationships into Gods hands. If you guys last more than a month, it's probably part of His plan. If he breaks up with you after a little while, God has another in store for you. Also, if he gets bored with girls after only a month, how will he be faithful throughout all of his years of marriage? The ultimate goal in dating, at least for me, is marriage. Of course I don't know your guy, but I'd say if he's not marriage material, he's not dating material either. Hope I helped and God Bless!! <3

God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of POWER, of LOVE, and of SELF-DISCIPLINE. So do not be afraid to testify about our LORD. ~2 Timothy 1:7-8

Adelynn

Posts:516

09/11/2009 9:54 PM
yeah, there are only two ways a relationship can end: marriage or a breakup (or someone dies, but that's not exactly directly relationship-based, if that makes any sense?). So if you don't think you will marry him, how do you think the relationship will end? Does it matter how long you are together if you're only going to break up anyway?

"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic

Ash:)

Posts:22

09/12/2009 3:25 AM
your both right, thanks i should stop being a loser and not worry about it! haha thanks!!!

-Ash<3

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