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Emmy
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| 10/01/2009 6:38 PM |
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Okay, so I like one of my guy friends and we used to talk a lot at school, but now it's our senior year (class of '10!) and we don't talk as much. I'd go to events at his church cuz him and another one of my guy friends would ask me to and Ryan (that's my crush) would act all impressive and be really funny. He's always trying to make me laugh, but he doesn't start REAL conversations- ya know, the one's that last more than a minute! lol He's still my friend and everything, but I want to get back on at least the level we had last year, which was being pretty good friends. I know he liked me before and I think he does now, cuz he'll get excited if I talk to him, but sometimes I don't know what to say. Little help with that. lol I also have a major issue of jealousy! I pray about all the time, but the little green monster comes out when he talks to this one girl in particular, because I know he used to like her. Help me deal please! lol THANKS!!!
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emilyjanelle
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| 10/02/2009 12:04 PM |
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| I know exactly how you feel about the jealousy! we all deal with it. but what you gotta learn is how to give it up to God. I don't know you (or this guy) well enough to say, "trust him, too". because maybe you can't. if he's constantly flirting with you, but then with this other girl, he probably needs to grow up a little. but if she's obviously just a friend (ask a close friend of his, or even better, a mutual friend), that leaves the ball in his court. then it's his problem to be asking you how you feel, etc. |
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Lindsey
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| 10/19/2009 1:46 PM |
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Omg.I have the same problem my crush,well he the kind of guy that talks to alot of girls,and I dont mind.Well him and I are like kinda together so..any ways.There is this one girl that he talks to and he use to like and I get so jealouse.I try so hard not to.The way I over came it was by telling myself that she wasnt worth making a fuss over and that now he likes me. I dont want to sound mean or in mature,but that was what I had to tell myself and it works. With this guy I liked he liked me lats,but I didnt like him back,but this year I really like him now.I really didnt have to do anything.My friends did it all for me.lol..!!!But like now he really likes me.So what I'm saying is that if he liked you last year he probably still does.Hope some of this helpsGood luck!!!!
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Lindsey
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| 10/19/2009 1:47 PM |
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| Oh yeah sorry this is sloppy. |
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Ki-ol Mi-ck-Co-rd
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| 11/11/2009 1:04 AM |
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Oh boy, do I hate Jealousy. The girl I like talks to everyone, it usually doesn't bother me, but we have this new guy at church - Webster - Me and him are good friends, but she talks to him alot, it worries me a bit, but he is six years older than eithier of us. And she probably doesn't like him, but boy it still scares me.
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