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sarahUser is Offline

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10/02/2009 9:35 PM  
Hey people I'm new to this forum ! I have always been a cheerful happy girl and I never had problems with self image or anything. But I have started dating the guy I have always liked and I completely adore him , but I am starting to feel emotions I have never felt before I'm starting to feel not good enough sometimes down right ugly even though he tells me he thinks I'm beautiful . But when I feel like this I get moody and it is starting to happen frequently!! I have been praying about it and I want to change . Is this normal ?? has anyone felt like this before ?? Anyone have any suggestions to help me get back to normal?
LindseyUser is Offline

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10/03/2009 11:40 AM  
Yes,I have felt this way befor with this guy I liked.I was always up and down and it would drive me crazy!!!!!I started hanging around my girl friends and I would feel better.When your boy friend tells you,you are beautiful ,you should beleive him.:)If he didnt meen it then he probably wouldnt have even mentioned it.Hope this helps alittle.;)
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10/18/2009 8:36 PM  
I know the feelings. I used to be a somewhat cheerful person. Sober but still happy. After I started dating, it was like I got so-moody! I just could never just believe it when he said I was beautiful, and I have never ever had self image problems! I learned to just accept it even if I didn't see it. I'm not sure why I had those moody feelings I know one reason was I was living with guilt for deceiving my parents about something. And though you aren't expecting this, I didn't become my cheerful self again until I broke up. Now I'm not saying you should! My circumstances were very unique:-/ It's nice to have my old self back now! I think part of the reason is just simply you are feeling so many emotions and when a girl gets that way she unknowinly copes my getting moody! there's nothig wrong with it, but if there is a root cause try to find it. For me it was guilt.h
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10/19/2009 9:09 AM  
I think part of the reason is just simply you are feeling so many emotions and when a girl gets that way she unknowingly copes by getting moody! There's nothing wrong with it, but if there is a root cause try to find it.

I agree with Clare. it could just be that you're experiencing alot of new situations and emotions, so you're spazzing a little. which is fine! learning to take it to God (aka pray HARD), talk to your parents (I like to vent to my mom about almost everything), or a close and trusted friend. if you can pinpoint a problem or temptation in your life, ask for help! the worst thing you can do is "try to fix it on your own." I've heard that line way too many times and it always ends in the person hitting rock bottom.

You may as well come quiet.
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BeaUser is Offline

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05/04/2010 4:49 PM  
I agree with all of the ones before me. I've dealt with my fair share of moods this year too. I learned something. You can control it. Whenever I got really mad or something, I prayed and just concentrated on being happy. You have to think about what is positive in your situation. I am so sorry, if I sounded a little different, I am german and very tired at the moment. Just remember: Moods are emotions and you have a say over them. Pray and act against it or the devil will have you. He tried this card with me and nearly got me. I'll pray for you before going to bed.
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