Derek
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| 12/11/2008 11:42 PM |
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| i would say ask him questions about himself. |
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Colton
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| 01/04/2009 1:14 PM |
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I will be completely honest. When I am around girls, i get lost in a mystic world it seems and then i get kind of froze up sometimes. Although, around my friends i am always with i can go on and on for hours in a conversation. So as you can figure i am a little shy and for me like WJR1991 said, i feel like a coward cause my mind is telling me, "She's just another human being like you, its not that hard. Common." But I still get froze up. Depending on which girl it is, whether i have known her for a while and i am really good friends or i have NEVER talked to her like her depends on how i would "wish" things to go. Obviously if i have known her for a while i wont have such a big problem talking to her and potentially asking her out. But if its that girl i have never talked to in my life then i get more nervous because i am afraid i will mess up the first impression on her about myself and my chances will be dumped. It really helps when the girl shows interest in the guy, especially if he is shy because his confidience will rise and so will his courage. Usually he will come straight out and let you know.
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emilyjanelle
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| 01/05/2009 9:11 AM |
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hmm...notes.
in a moreso letter format, i think it's romantic. instead of texting, it's way better. texting, to me, seems so impersonal.
but i wouldn't mind getting a random note from a guy who liked me (and either i already knew/i liked him back). and even if we were dating, i think it'd actually be kind of cute. just an unexpected thing like that is what hooks girls.
but if you're planning on asking a girl out, through a note, that's pretty lame. and you seem like the type of guy who wouldn't anyway, but just saying. most girls would be hugely turned off by that cowardice. either by phone or in person is best.
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Colton
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| 01/05/2009 7:44 PM |
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thanks for the reply. i just wasnt sure what gilrs thought about letters at all.
no no no, i wouldnt ask a girl out on a note, just write them as a little surprise or something like that.
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And when he gets to Heaven to St. Peter he will tell: "One more Marine reporting, Sir. I have served my time in Hell." Sgt. James |
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JoJo
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| 01/05/2009 8:57 PM |
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Girls all like recieving notes. it's cute. I think any girl would melt LOL  |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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Brooke914
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| 01/06/2009 1:25 AM |
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| ya i am in the same boat i like this guy and he is not necessarily shy but its like he doesnt need girls at this particular moment he is content with being with his friends and just hanging out we talk and always have fun together and laugh all the time but what really sucks is he is going to college and i am stuck here its crazy cause i feel i am just me when i am with him and i love it so much and i think its the same for him its almost like he's what i have been looking for but i dont know what do you guys think. My plan is just to chill and have fun and just continue to talk to him and have a really good time together and see were God takes me. = ) |
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Brooke914
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| 01/06/2009 1:27 AM |
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| i also think notes are cute and are a different approach which is always nice! |
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emilyjanelle
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| 01/06/2009 12:42 PM |
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brooke, stick with that mindset. chill! haha, that's become my motto these past few months. if that's all you believe you should do, then do it. God will honor your faithfullness.
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Adelynn
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| 01/06/2009 1:33 PM |
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| short notes just to say Hey totally make my day!! Even if they are on FB, I feel like someone thought of me. |
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"... I will pour out my Spirit upon all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy..." Acts 2.17
What If His People Prayed? |
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JoJo
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| 01/07/2009 3:05 AM |
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lol Im in the opposite position to you Brooke, Im the older one studying at uni, and the guy im sorta getting to know is still in high school. He's a senior this year. (I've been out of highschool school for 2 years.)
But Id say yeah, just be relaxed and show him you're there for him. but dont be on the phone to him like 24/7, it may creep him out, or am I wrong guys?? |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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Adelynn
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| 01/16/2009 9:22 AM |
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haha thanks guys.
Last night a mutual friend had a "Christmas break party" bcuz he's leaving in a couple days, so there were 6 of us there and the really shy guy, and we all played Apples to Apples and had dinner together and it was a LOT of fun!!! |
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"... I will pour out my Spirit upon all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy..." Acts 2.17
What If His People Prayed? |
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Caleb2
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| 02/19/2009 2:42 AM |
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sometimes he might seem shy but really is just waiting for the right time to ask. i'm a big romantic and i can't ask a girl i like out just anywhere. for me it has to be special. like with my girlfriend i waited two months just to ask her while we were skating on the local pond.(had to wait until it froze.) |
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What's another word for "thesaurus"?
Why does the Easter bunny carry eggs? Rabbits don't lay eggs.
What disease did cured ham actually have?
Isn't it a bit unnerving that doctors call what they do "practice"?
these are the questions i'll ask when i get to heaven |
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artyprincess
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| 03/02/2009 3:52 AM |
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Adelynn - I love Apples to Apples! It's really fun! Have you ever played Balderdash? It's hilarious!
Caleb2 - ha ha!! I suppose you had a while to contemplate and rehearse what you were going to say to her, huh? And I want to know the answers to those questions too! Why DOES the easter bunny carry eggs?? |
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Caleb2
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| 03/04/2009 4:32 PM |
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yeah, i had written down what i was going to say but i got really nervous and forgot it all |
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What's another word for "thesaurus"?
Why does the Easter bunny carry eggs? Rabbits don't lay eggs.
What disease did cured ham actually have?
Isn't it a bit unnerving that doctors call what they do "practice"?
these are the questions i'll ask when i get to heaven |
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emilyjanelle
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| 03/06/2009 11:23 AM |
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| wulp, caleb, i gotta commend you on writing it down. but honestly? don't. haha, no really. over-analyzing will just get you MORE nervous than you really need to be. i've come close to writing stuff down that i want to say to a guy before we talk/hang out and i never say what i want to, after the fact, haha. it's just useless! ride by the seat of your pants. seriously! it's much more thrilling that way and, though you may end up regretting a few things you say, more often than not, you won't! |
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You may as well come quiet.
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Caleb2
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| 03/06/2009 8:13 PM |
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| thanks for the advice |
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What's another word for "thesaurus"?
Why does the Easter bunny carry eggs? Rabbits don't lay eggs.
What disease did cured ham actually have?
Isn't it a bit unnerving that doctors call what they do "practice"?
these are the questions i'll ask when i get to heaven |
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