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lizzyUser is Offline

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06/10/2010 11:33 PM  
so I'm having troubles a friend recently drug me into my brothers love life my friend think the girl that my bro is going out with is using him. because she just wants to be known that she has a bf because all her other friends have bfs. she's my friend too but idk what to do. do i get involved in my bros love life and help both him and my friend that he's going out with or what? idk what to do i don't want to hurt my bro and i don't want to hurt my friend either idk my bro still doesn't know plz help me and my bro.
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06/12/2010 5:25 PM  
Only if you can be absolutely sure that your brother's girlfriend is in fact dating him just to have a boyfriend. And frankly, if you're sure of that, you should bring it to her first, not him.

So, if you are pretty certain that's what's going on, you should pray over it, then go to her and tell her that's what you see is going on, and tell her you just want to make sure she's in a relationship with your brother because she loves him, not because she wants a boyfriend because to have a boyfriend/girlfriend just for that sake is dehumanizing that person. Be very plain you're not accusing her of doing that, it just seems like that's possible and you wanted to make sure that's not the case.

So, as much as possible, leave your brother out of it... if you know she's lying, then perhaps your friend will join you and the two of you can say that's what it looks like. If it's glaringly obvious, and she won't admit to it... then tell your brother that you think he needs to get out of the relationship. That should be the very very very last resort.

Hope that helps!
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lizzyUser is Offline

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06/12/2010 10:29 PM  
ok so talking to his gf was my plane but i haven't really gotten chance to see her lately. and to make matters worse my older sister found out about this then she told my bro so now he knows, and i'm not even sure if its true or not know he's freaking out and he's now pissed and my friend idk what to do now i'm kind of afraid to get into this i mean i didn't even ask to be in this idk what to do help plz =/
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