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nadine07
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| 06/26/2010 8:31 PM |
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| new to the site so this might already be a question i don't know...
do guys like quiet girls or ones who love to talk all the time? i'm very shy especially around guys and just wondering if that's the reason i've never been on a date...i was always taught that guys should initiate things including conversations ...is that something i should do? |
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AlexTi
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| 06/26/2010 8:35 PM |
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yes some guys like qiuet girls because they dont like talking . some guys just dont like akward silence or feeling like they talk to themselves |
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wolf
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| 06/26/2010 9:11 PM |
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| the girl i like is an extremely shy and quiet girl. and ive liked her for about four years. i personaly have always liked quiet girls. not so much tht they never talk but that they never shut up to. i dnt think there are very many guys who like very talkitive girls. but thts my opinion. so as long as u hav good qualities u hav jst as good a chnce as any other girl. |
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Grant I.
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| 06/26/2010 11:07 PM |
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First of all, welcome to the forums! It's a good place!  Pull up a stump and sit a while! IMHO, it pretty much depends on the personality of the guy. If the guy's really talkative and outgoing, he'll probably like a more quiet girl, because they get along great. He talks alot, she talks a little, they're both happy, they get married, and have kids! LOL Opposite is true too. A guy who doesn't talk a whole lot will likely be attracted to a more outgoing, talkative girl. She talks alot, he says a few sweet things here and there, listens alot, they're both happy, they get married, and have kids!  I can't quite figure out what I am anymore, but I used to be really really shy, and I absolutely HATED the thought of trying to strike up a random conversation with a girl. When I was about 17, 18 or so, I totally obliterated my shell, and started doing hilariously random, and friend-embarassing stuff all the time. I still tend to be more the quiet type(when I don't have a reason to get loud and marauding), and I'm attracted to more outgoing and spunky girls. Every once in a while, I need someone to build a fire under me and get me moving.
One thing I will say about shy/quiet girls, is that depending on how you act, you may send off vibes the guy will interpret like you are scared of him, or nervous, and you aren't sure you want to talk to him, or you trust him at all. For myself, if I sense this from a girl, I probably won't talk to her much, because I don't want to freak her out, or make her more uncomfortable. Guys probably won't notice you as much, just because you're so darn quiet, and they never hear you! LOL I personally think quiet/shy girls are really cute, adorable, etc. Sometimes I like trying to drag them out of their shell. If this is the kind of feelings you may be showing, whether intentional or not, you might just try to make a concerted effort to act more inviting, or open, and maybe more guys/people in general will talk to you. Instead of looking away quickly when your eyes meet someone else's, and looking at the floor as you walk past, and not saying anything to them, look a stranger in the eyes and smile at 'em. Walk into a room with your head up and sweep the room like you're the new sheriff in town, and you heard there's a new gunslinger makin' his rounds. Yell out "Hi!" to someone you know when you see 'em. That's the kind of stuff I started doing, and now I can't be embarassed. LOL Give it a whirl! It's fun!  |
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dc_88keys4christ
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| 01/31/2011 1:45 AM |
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| What do you guys think of girls who used to be loud and flirty and fun, but then they grow up and are (somewhat ) intelligent, and still talkative, but more thoughtful about what they say and how they say it? Or on some days, they barely speak at all? Lol! Is that change ever scary? |
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James
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| 01/31/2011 6:47 PM |
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haha that's great grant  I think I'm going through the 'shell breaking' stage myself I used to be very shy but now I love a good chat most of the time
quiet girls aren't noticed as much and aren't as appealing to the younger males (early highschool) because there aren't really serious relationships and it can be harder to get along with a quiet girl. As you grow up a bit guys start to notice you more they start to value a quiet spirit. Usually quiet girls get noticed by quiet boys but neither are really outgoing enough to make much of it.
I never went on dates because I was to shy etc but now that I'm not as shy I've realised I don't really want to go on dates haha. I just want some good friends and to one day find the girl that's right for me
really loud girls are pretty fun and entertaining they can seem a bit scatter brained but they are always great to talk to, the maturing thing is great too being able to hold a conversation with anyone is a great ability but being able to see when to close your mouth is great too. Often the two don't come together |
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Becka
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| 01/31/2011 7:15 PM |
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being able to hold a conversation with anyone is a great ability but being able to see when to close your mouth is great too. Often the two don't come together
LOL! Haha I'm a pretty quiet girl but I know when to talk and I'm not really afraid of what people think of me. I'm very comfortable with who I am and I love joking around but I'm also naturally introverted. Is that a possible combination??
It must be because I'm living it but it's kinda weird realizing being shy and being an introvert are two different things. |
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love*
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| 01/31/2011 11:28 PM |
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| for me it depends who the people r and how bad i wana no them!some ppl i just click withn sum u just havta talk first if u really wana no themn then it rly depends my mood n if im with the'rite people' with my friends that i can act howevr i want.. |
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Becka
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| 02/01/2011 3:25 AM |
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| Good answer, love*! |
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my blog - http://beckasramblings.blogspot.com/
previously Jessamae.
the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair - Relient K |
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