ruger414
Posts:0
 |
| 07/19/2010 4:42 PM |
|
Ok. This is my my first post and i have a question. There is this really cute girl who goes to my school. I have had a crush on her for a while now and I'm wondering what would be the best way to approach her. Any suggestions?
|
|
|
|
|
ruger414
Posts:0
|
| 07/20/2010 3:23 PM |
|
Oh. I have also made her laugh a couple of times (in a good way) but i guess the question is, what is the best way to seriously approach her and get to know her without being a goofball. Any advice would be great
|
|
|
|
|
clare
Posts:932
|
| 07/20/2010 4:10 PM |
|
| Just talk to her! Do you see her at church, school?? Do you have the same group of friends? and would your parents or hers care? Show interest in what she does, her hobbies and stuff. |
|
|
|
|
ruger414
Posts:0
|
| 07/20/2010 5:17 PM |
|
Ok. I'm friends with some of her friends and she is in most of my classes. I don't know if he goes to church though because i have not gone for a while. But i will talk to her and see what happens. 
|
|
|
|
|
ruger414
Posts:0
|
| 07/20/2010 5:42 PM |
|
Oops. I said he. lol. Sorry i meant to say she.
|
|
|
|
|
Adelynn
Posts:516
|
| 07/20/2010 10:47 PM |
|
| I agree, just make an effort to talk to her. I know it can be hard when you're crushing on someone to act "normal" but think of her as a potential friend- also that way you won't make her a little nervous |
|
"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic |
|
|
ruger414
Posts:0
|
| 07/21/2010 1:53 AM |
|
| ok. Yah i do tend to get nervous aroud girls. so i will try to just get to know her as a friend first and see where that goes |
|
|
|
|
JoJo
Posts:1657
|
| 07/21/2010 6:47 AM |
|
the best thing to do is try. thats all we can really do, and maybe ask her questions like "what bands do you like" etc.
and yeah, find out if she goes to church. |
|
Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.
God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
JoJo |
|
|
ruger414
Posts:0
|
| 07/21/2010 12:10 PM |
|
Ok. I still have 2 weeks until school starts so I'm gonna have to wait.
|
|
|
|
|
Nikki
Posts:13
|
| 10/18/2010 10:21 PM |
|
| My advice is simple: pray
if God has planned for her to be your future wife, then pray and ask Him to show you if its her. to get to know her better, itll take time. u dont meet a guy friend one day and the day after ur close friends. same way with girls. be casual around her, make her laugh (i rly like it when my guy friends make me laugh, its somehow different then when my girl friends do it), etc. dont be rude either to her or to anyone else in front of her. Coming from a girl, we really do like the guys who can be manly and protect us, but also who are true gentlemen to everyone. it makes me feel like my girl-ness with be cherised and respected.
-Victoria |
|
|
|
|
Nikki
Posts:13
|
| 10/18/2010 10:21 PM |
|
| My advice is simple: pray
if God has planned for her to be your future wife, then pray and ask Him to show you if its her. to get to know her better, itll take time. u dont meet a guy friend one day and the day after ur close friends. same way with girls. be casual around her, make her laugh (i rly like it when my guy friends make me laugh, its somehow different then when my girl friends do it), etc. dont be rude either to her or to anyone else in front of her. Coming from a girl, we really do like the guys who can be manly and protect us, but also who are true gentlemen to everyone. it makes me feel like my girl-ness with be cherised and respected.
-Victoria |
|
|
|
|
Nikki
Posts:13
|
| 10/18/2010 10:22 PM |
|
| oops sorry i didnt mean to put that up twice |
|
|
|
|