dc_88keys4christ
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| 02/15/2011 3:05 PM |
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lol, neither would I!  |
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Erica Allen
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| 02/18/2011 4:59 PM |
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| lol exactly. Matts not as close to God as he needs to be, that would help |
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dc_88keys4christ
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| 02/19/2011 12:40 AM |
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| Be careful what you say about him. Chances are, he won't wind up stumbling upon this site, but you never know. I was "frenemies" with this guy for several months, and I said a lot of negative things to him and about him. When I found out how much he had been hurt by my words, I felt awful! Since then, we've reconciled, but I have learned not to speak about a fellow Christian that way. I was sort of teasing when I said, "Neither would I" but I think I came across wrong. |
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Erica Allen
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| 02/21/2011 7:23 PM |
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| yeah, i dont wna be mean. but hes jus hard to deal with |
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dc_88keys4christ
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| 02/21/2011 9:48 PM |
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| I understand. The annoying guy I mentioned in my last post is still difficult sometimes. Keep praying for Matt and God will help you learn how to love him. |
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dc_88keys4christ
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| 02/21/2011 9:49 PM |
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| Is he still "venting" to you? |
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Erica Allen
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| 02/22/2011 7:27 PM |
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| Yeah, but ive learned how to take it. I vent to my "bro" an "sis" all tha time but he doesnt have that so ive learned how to care about hem more |
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Paul Job
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| 02/23/2011 10:07 PM |
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Tell him to chill!!! I'm 16 myself and even I'm not this girl crazy. He has the rest of his life to find "the girl" for him. Tell him that God has a plan for everything in his life. Even girls. If he just relaxes and learns patience, then he'll see when the right girl comes along.
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dc_88keys4christ
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| 02/24/2011 5:39 PM |
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| Is he an only child? |
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Erica Allen
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| 02/25/2011 5:40 PM |
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No, he has an older sister, but she moved out a wile ago. And I dont think they really talk alot or anything |
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dc_88keys4christ
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| 03/01/2011 1:35 PM |
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| Maybe your "brother" would be willing to try to be a friend (despite his strong dislike for Matt)? I think you should ask him about it; it's worth a try. He wouldn't have to try to be like close friends or anything, but at least someone to talk to. |
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Erica Allen
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| 03/03/2011 3:14 PM |
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| idk im kinda scared to, lol theres alot of man pride between them to. They used to go to school together and i think theyve both seen things they dont like about eachother. they goof off at church an stuff but at the end of tha day i know they still dont feel "ok" about eachother
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dc_88keys4christ
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| 03/03/2011 6:51 PM |
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| Tell the youth pastor, your dad, etc... |
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Erica Allen
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| 03/06/2011 8:33 PM |
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| My youth paster just left 2 weeks ago, my dad doesnt go to church. lol Im kinda stuck |
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dc_88keys4christ
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| 03/07/2011 4:24 PM |
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oh dear... you and your friends should just try to include him, I guess. Not having any friends at Youth Group isn't going to help him mature spiritually... sorry I don't have anything better to say other than keep praying!  |
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