James
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| 01/29/2011 11:00 PM |
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| guys feel the same about girls, it's just if they cried like ALL the time haha. |
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Beckah
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| 01/30/2011 10:26 AM |
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thats interesting.... if i were crying i would hope a guy would let me cry on his sholder. Or i would let him cry on mine,  Then i could give him a hug and he would be all better!! haha  |
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"Check yourself before you wreck yourself" |
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love*
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| 01/30/2011 7:48 PM |
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im sure it wuld help but i doubt it wuld b all betr!lol ya if i was crying i wuld wana b able to cry on his shoulder.i mean i wuldn mind him crying a little to but not sobbing  |
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Becka
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| 01/30/2011 8:22 PM |
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| It would be really sweet if a guy friend started crying - but I'm not sure how many of us girls would actually know what to do! What would/should we do? How about if their love language is not physical touch and we don't think a hug would be appropriate, or something? What else besides hugs? |
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Beckah
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| 01/31/2011 12:24 AM |
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| What should we do to comfort a guy thats crying? us girls would be clueless.. :p |
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"Check yourself before you wreck yourself" |
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dc_88keys4christ
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| 01/31/2011 1:31 AM |
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| Just sit quietly and pray for him. |
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Beckah
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| 01/31/2011 9:20 AM |
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| that could work too! |
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"Check yourself before you wreck yourself" |
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love*
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| 01/31/2011 3:54 PM |
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| i think i wuld just giv them a hug..even if they arnt a huge fan of them! |
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James
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| 01/31/2011 6:26 PM |
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| if you didn't say anything at all and just sat there it could easily get awkward, but yeah just so long as he felt your presence and support. Maybe silently, maybe physically, whatever felt right i think a hug would be suitable 99% of the time |
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love*
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| 02/01/2011 10:58 PM |
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| ya unless he was like crying cus he was rly angry with whoevr he was talking to..he mite hawl of n hit u!lol |
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Beckah
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| 02/02/2011 2:28 PM |
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| oh yeh, my cousion got so ticked at this one guy and he went out side and spazed out BIG time. i was scared to be around him when he is mad, i still am sometimes.... lol He did tell me he would never raise his hand at a girl.... |
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dc_88keys4christ
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| 02/02/2011 6:47 PM |
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I'm sort of like a guy with the crying thing... lol. Plenty of times, I'll feel like crying, but I won't. I really don't like to cry, but if I'm alone, it's ok.
I've also developed that tendency to somewhat ignore problems until they either go away, or until I know what I'm doing and can fix things!
I've heard that a lot of guys are like that. Is that true? |
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love*
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| 02/07/2011 10:27 PM |
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| ok so how does it work to ignore a problem n then it just goes away?lol |
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dc_88keys4christ
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| 02/07/2011 10:31 PM |
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Hey, you missed the point, and that wasn't funny! I said somewhat ignore the problem. There's definitely a differnce  |
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dc_88keys4christ
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| 02/07/2011 10:31 PM |
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| oops... difference |
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love*
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| 02/08/2011 10:10 AM |
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im sry wasn laughing i was just wandering |
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dc_88keys4christ
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| 02/09/2011 12:09 PM |
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| haha.. okay! |
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