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BeckahUser is Offline

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03/02/2011 2:21 PM  
well as of latley. you are like miss fourm. so i here by crown you miss fourm. (well for now) lol :)

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03/02/2011 2:22 PM  
And I crown you as miss forum's evil twin because you are second in command on here!
BeckahUser is Offline

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03/02/2011 2:23 PM  
MOWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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03/02/2011 2:25 PM  
You're older than me... by fifteen days. haha.
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03/02/2011 2:26 PM  
oh wow! so your bday is like the 30th?

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03/02/2011 2:27 PM  
uhuh.
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03/02/2011 2:30 PM  
i will remember that, so then i can wish you a happy birthday. lol :)

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03/02/2011 2:31 PM  
lol. awww.
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03/02/2011 2:32 PM  
hehe ;)

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03/02/2011 2:33 PM  
my cousins graduation is May 15, on my bay. so i will be in Kansas at a grad party. LOL :P

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03/02/2011 2:40 PM  
ooh. nice. :)
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03/02/2011 2:45 PM  
ah its going to be a blast tho!

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03/06/2011 4:33 PM  
Im in the no dating club id rather become friends with no question of dating first to find out how they really are. seriously most guy i know are like rude and i wouldn't want to date them anyway.

I've recently borrowed this philosophy: Don't sweat the petty things and don't pet the sweaty things.

from: 1000 glass beads (a book)
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03/07/2011 11:03 AM  
 seriously most guy i know are like rude and i wouldn't want to date them anyway.

 So true. I know so many girls that meet a guy like the first week of school and they begin dating a week later. Two weeks later, when he "cheats" on them or whatever, they come to me crying, saying, "I just didn't think he was like that!!" When you hardly know someone your relationship has no foundation.

I've decided to go through the courtship process. Although it sounds old-fashioned and unnecessary, courtship is simply not pursuing a relationship until you are ready to be united in marriage. Both the guy and the girl sit down together before they go on any dates and agree that the purpose of their time together is not for fun and romance, but to discover if God means for them to be married or not. If anytime throughout the period one does not feel like they are, they immediately tell the other in order to minimize the damage. God is at the center of the relationship, and both the guy and girl pray for and with each other, and talk about what God is doing in their lives. They set specific physical boundaries that they will not cross to ensure that physical and emotional gratification is not the focus of the relationship, but the friendship building process as they seek God first.

Sometimes it may be hard to wait until you are of marrying age to be in a relationship. But think of your single years as a gift! You are able to serve God wholeheartedly as you develop as a man or woman. And think of how sweet your marriage will be when you've saved all of yourself for your spouse, not only your physical purity, but also your emotions, "I love you's",  and your entire heart. Don't waste your teenage years focused on being in meaningless (though they may seem important at the time) relationships, and you will be blessed more than you can imagine!

God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of POWER, of LOVE, and of SELF-DISCIPLINE. So do not be afraid to testify about our LORD.
~2 Timothy 1:7-8
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03/07/2011 2:45 PM  
AMEN Rose! i agree with you completely.. :) im also going to do the same. but im only 17, so who knows when i will start. haha well this guy and i are just going to to be good friends and get to know eachother. then Lord willing something more.(we both know we like eachother too lol)
but thats so awsome that you are not going to "date".. :P

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03/07/2011 8:54 PM  
Courtship is so much more rewarding!!! :wow:
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03/08/2011 10:59 AM  
i just got the josh harris book-"Boy meets Girl- say hello to courtship" its a very good book so far. :)

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03/08/2011 5:18 PM  
I like Rich and Christy's story best and for those of you who don't know what I'm talking about, go read the book!
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03/08/2011 5:23 PM  
haha im only on the 2nd chapter

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