Cole
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| 02/09/2009 11:52 PM |
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I'm hopin ya'll can help me Me an my cuz used to talk like all da time...he livs in a dif state an i only see him like once a year..it was about a year an a half ago wen we started talkin more..he got MSN an we started talkin on it like ever nite, sumtimes a couple hrs at a time..well, it seemed to me like we were pretty close..we talked about everything...i told him alot of stuff an went to him wid probs or for advie an he confided in me bout things...well after a few months he like ttly quit talkin to me...at first i figured it was just cuz wrestling season started an he gets rly busy during wrestling season...but even after it was over he wouldnt talk to me..like he never got online an wen he did he would barely talk..or if I txt him it was da same way..i had to make all da conversation...an I get da feeling it annoys him wen a txt or start da conversation online. And wen I txt him for advice or somethin sumtimes he wont even answer...an he was da one in da first place that told me if i ever needed advice or anything to come to him....But then every once in a while he'll seem almost like himself an joke
around an actually talk wid me! but then da next time he mite not even
answer...I asked him a couple times if there was somethin wrong or if i did anything to upset him an all he said was it wasnt me an nothin was wrong...Da only reasons I can think of are first of all he got a GF..but i dont think that would hav made him ttly leave me like that..would it? ..reason 2: one time he gave my email to one of his friends...and one time wen I was talkin 2 his friend I found out he was drunk..and my parents found out..an i told him i couldnt hav him in my contacts cuz my parents wouldnt like it...an I think his friend got sorta mad at me..idk if that would maybe hav something to do wid it? but anyway..i RLY miss him I was just hopin ya'll maybe would hav sum answers?? Especially you guys since...ya'll are guys! lol...maybe you can understand where he's comin from cuz i sure cant! and sry this got so long...hehe. Thanx ya'll!!!
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JoJo
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| 02/10/2009 2:10 AM |
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That's really weird. There must be a reason behind it...
Would you be able to talk to your uncle and aunt about it? maybe they could tell you if he wont...
I've never had that problem with my cousins, so I dont really get it... like why he would stop talking to you?
the things you described might be a reason... i dont know.
Sorry i couldnt help much, Ill try to figure out why, but this is all I have for now...
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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Locke
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| 02/10/2009 3:19 AM |
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For guys, conversation… isn't really as important as it is for a girl. If we don't talk to someone for a year, we don't notice much. Not to say we don't notice at all, or miss being able to chat, but we don't. (this is just background info on how guys work).
As for him going from talking to you a lot to not talking to you at all, besides him being busy he might have lost interest in getting on the computer often - does he play computer games? For myself, there's a girl I know who I used to IM with frequently. Now… we haven't talked in weeks. I'm not avoiding her or anything, and I'm not incredibly busy, our schedules just don't coincide well and I can't text her, so… *shrug*
It's still odd, like JoJo said try to talk to his parents and see if there's anything different going on in his life. Maybe he's just feeling overwhelmed with all the stuff you two have been talking about. Guys have a limit on how much we can process emotionally, and talking about emotions doesn't help that at all. |
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Adelynn
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| 02/10/2009 8:24 AM |
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| I used to be on AIM all the time but I'm never on anymore. It's not because I'm mad at anyone or even because I have less time than I did before (I just sort of made time). So maybe it's like that- he's just finding other things to do than be online IMing |
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Cole
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| 02/10/2009 8:58 AM |
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hey thanx guys! Ya you could be right about the online thing..he's said he just dont get on as much..but wut about wen i txt him?? Why would he ignore that? an about talkin to my aunt an uncle..I dont rly think that would work...i mean I dont kno them that well..an it would just be kinda awkward.. but thanx for da idea! I appreciate it ya'll! |
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Cole
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| 02/10/2009 8:59 AM |
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| an ya..I've never had a prob wid any of my cuzins b4 this either...thats part of da reason it so confusing |
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Cole
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| 02/14/2009 11:51 AM |
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| Does any1 else hav anything for me on this one..gals? guys? I rly could use anything else you can say! |
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artyprincess
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| 02/14/2009 11:33 PM |
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I really have no idea - sometimes people cut you off for reasons even they don't understand!
Perhaps it's God's way of shutting a door?? Sometimes that happens.. |
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Cole
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| 02/17/2009 11:03 PM |
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| Maybe...sigh..but I don't understand that either..I mean He's not a christian an I'm bout the only Christian he talkes to much..or used to anyway..an I worry bout him..oh well..guess i should just drop da whole thing huh? thanx ya'll |
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JoJo
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| 02/18/2009 5:11 PM |
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| If you're the only christian he talks to, keep trying to stay in contact... Also pray for him!! that's always the best thing to do! |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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Cole
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| 02/20/2009 4:56 PM |
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| You dont kno who much i've prayed for him! An i'll keep it up! Thanx JoJo |
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maddiegirl
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| 03/20/2009 4:50 PM |
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| i kinda kno exactly what u mean dare2dream........its like the same w/ this 1 guy friend of mine. hes so sweet sometimes and he'll tell me 2 go 2 him 4 advice or he'll want 2 kno who i lyk and he's protective & everything...but other times he just wont talk. so i usually just wait 4 him 2 get into another 1 of his "talking modes" and i just let it go. |
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