Kelsedilla
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| 04/29/2009 8:02 PM |
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DO GUYS REALLY CARE ABOUT WEIGHT?? |
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Kelsedilla
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| 04/29/2009 8:05 PM |
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| and i meant girl's weight, not theirs |
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Locke
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| 04/29/2009 8:13 PM |
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To some extent, yes.
Sharing my own perspective here, I can be friends with many different people, regardless of weight, but I'm not typically attracted to girls that are overweight (and it's noticeable) or underweight (and again, noticeably). If you take care of your body, get enough exercise and sleep and eat healthily, it really isn't an issue with me. |
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JoJo
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| 04/29/2009 8:26 PM |
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well, put it this way... as a girl... would you want to date a skinny as-ribs exposed guy or... a REALLY overweight guy??
it's kinda the same thing... like I couldn't date a really shrimpy guy (cuz im quite thin and a guy thinner than me is just... wrong... cuz it wouldn't feel like he could protect me  haha) and I couldn't date a really overweight guy cuz, I'm an active person and again, i'd be stronger than him, so that doesn't work either...
and I'm guessing it's the same for guys, (except of course, they want a girl who can't beat them @ arm wrestling ) |
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Lookin' back from where you have been
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emilyjanelle
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| 04/30/2009 9:58 PM |
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| I agree with locke and jojo. I just want somebody who takes care of themselves and I think it's the same for guys. he doesn't have to be buff and ripped, but I don't want him to be grossly overweight, either. if I can tell that he cares about his body, that's all that really matters. |
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sunshine
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| 05/01/2009 5:17 AM |
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| I think as long as you are confident in yourself you will shine! and guys like girls who are comfortable with herself including her body image |
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Logan
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| 05/01/2009 9:59 PM |
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To answer your question, YES, I do care about weight. A girl should not be all skin and bones, but at the same time she should not be so big that her man can't pick her up. imVHo I feel that girls should have curves, I think that God intended it to be that way. Don't measure yourself by today's standards, everyone is all messed up anyway, a guy MUST like you for more than your looks because outside beauty fades and then all that's left is the inside and that's what counts
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It's the tough things in life that make us who we are, and I'm a sensitive blockhead |
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Logan
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| 05/01/2009 10:12 PM |
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btw being skinny is not all that it's cracked up to be I'm a really skinny guy I'm 125lbs and I'm 5' 10" my girlfriend (I hope she doesn't mind me saying this) is 5' 9" and she's 144lbs. I think that she looks INCREDIBLE, however she says that she feels fat, I wish that I could be bigger but my metabolism is very high, I wear 28/32- which I think is about a 7 girl size. (might be wrong) but I can bench-press 165lbs. so I can defend her if I have to  |
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It's the tough things in life that make us who we are, and I'm a sensitive blockhead |
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fronoshow
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| 08/18/2009 4:57 PM |
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I think some guys on here just are telling the girls what they want to hear, and im going to be completely honest.
Yes, i care... if a girl is like a little overweight then its something EASILY overcome by her personality, so that should be nothing to worry about but some things just cant be ignored... |
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JoJo
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| 08/18/2009 6:41 PM |
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I agree... Skinny isn't all it's cracked up to be...
I'm on of those "skinny" girls, and I just can't put on weight and... I hate it... I donno why but I hate it...
O.K. I'm not shrimpy or anorexic... but everyone's always saying "I wish I looked like you" and I wanna reply "I wish I looked like you! Cuz skinny doesn't look healthy... and granted, I eat anything regardless of calories or fat content, but I look after myslef, and I hate it when everyone assumes I dont eat or whatever...
Now after that rant...
Healthy is what everyone should aim for  does that help? |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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Shootforthemoon
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| 08/18/2009 7:18 PM |
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| Ya I kno how u feel jojo I can eat watever i want and wenever i want but i wont gain any weight...but i dont hate it..its awsom not having to worry bout ur weight and how many calories u eat And trust me a take full advantage of it to lol... oh and guyz i was wondering...do yall think its kind of weird if a grl can eat alot? |
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JoJo
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| 08/19/2009 12:34 AM |
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lol yeah I'm wondering that too... cuz I eat tonnes
I just get annoyed cuz I can't make myself look less skinny... like I can tone up, but because i dont put on weight, I never can get tonned enough to not look shrimpy hehe
that's probably nopt explaining it properly but oh well |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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MyLifeHisWill
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| 08/19/2009 7:51 AM |
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| Haha Jojo I wish i could eat anything. I'm not fat, and I wouldn't call myself that, but over the summer I've gained alot of weight and I HATE it....I think guys do care, I mean I care about guy's weight. Iknow my boyfriend is NOT a fan of overweight girls. Theres this one girl at youth group who he was talking about once and said, "She's such an awsome girl with a great personality - if she just lost some weight there would be alot of guys who would be attracted to her." So thats my 2ce lol |
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Shootforthemoon
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| 08/19/2009 10:07 AM |
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| lol ya i eat tons to! Somtyms if im not vry hungry and i only get a little bit of food som of my friends will be lik,wow is that ALL ur eating??? haha... |
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JoJo
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| 08/19/2009 10:27 PM |
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| LOL totally! like if I'm feeling sick and don't wanna eat much, and then everyone's like "omgosh you don't eat..." and I'm like "bro... you ahven't seen me when I'm really hungry... |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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clare
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| 08/20/2009 5:08 PM |
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| that's me too! I had to much stress and lost way to much, I'm not skinny and I an NOT fat, ok, I'm holding a steady 115 and I'm 5' 3". So I can deffinatly use more lbs but I eat and never gain! My family has very high metabolism! The young man I am dating used to be rather big. He has lost an amazing amount and I think he's perfect. It' looks terribly funny when we are together and walk by a mirror! But the advantage of him being bigger than me is he can easily pick me up or move me around.(though he doesn't have much of a reason to do that often). A man's weight doesn't matter to me If I know it matters to him. I learned to love a large man and though he isn't now I think it was a good learning experience for me!! |
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David
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| 08/20/2009 8:43 PM |
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Bunch of can-eat-all-you-want skinny people...
*grumble* |
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Aim at heaven and you will get earth thrown in. Aim at earth and you get neither.
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Shootforthemoon
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| 08/21/2009 6:13 PM |
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| wel hey it aint lik its our fault! |
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artyprincess
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| 08/21/2009 9:42 PM |
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David, I'm with you. My cousin is like that, but she's really skinny, not from not eating but because both her parents are like that. If you saw her without any of her family, you'd think she had an eating disorder, but she doesn't!
I however, have average parents.....
My annoyance is those people who eat junk food all the time and never get a zit! My mum takes great care to feed us all healthily (I mean, c'mon, we have steamed veggies for breakfast, no joke) and I always have a spot!  It's not fair, is it!
To answer Kelsidella's question: So long as you are healthy, a guy shouldn't mind. You shouldn't try to gauge 'healthy' on the stick thin models, because that's definitely UN healthy. |
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PeterW
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| 08/22/2009 11:50 PM |
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Naw weight don't matter. You girls just need to understand you all are beautiful. Period. Just get that in you head.
And yeah just be healthy and all that other stuff they all said. But some born this way some are different but the Lord made you n your body so you're perfect just the way you are.
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