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JoJo
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| 09/08/2008 8:00 PM |
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Hey Will! I think alot of the girls on here would benifit from hearing your perspective on this question, so I started a new topic.
I know that sometimes when girls message guys and they dont reply straight away or take AGES to reply or, sometimes dont even reply, they get their feelings hurt. My brother says that sometimes, guys dont really think about it, and it's not that they're snobbing you, its just that they maybe didnt have time to reply and then forgot about it.
What do you think about it? What if it happens more than once?
Like I know, myself, that most of my guy friends dont reply to comments, or messages etc, but what does it mean, from your perspective, if the guy continually doesnt reply??
I hope you can all benifit from this topic.  |
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wjr1991
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| 09/08/2008 8:43 PM |
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Wow, yet again, pick on the only guy here, eh? :-)
Ok... I'll give it a shot. I've definitely done that before. Of course, I also get annoyed if people don't message me right back too, usually (because I try to be on top of that).
Yeah, it's often the case that we are just really busy... or doing other stuff, and just not paying attention to our email or stuff like that.But, with me especially, I suspect it's hard to read, because I have sporadic spurts of business... where I may well be, like, logged in to my email, but not answer. However, the other thing is we could just not have a return comment- like, it's a dead topic, or something. But if we're just not responding to anything, that's probably when we're either grounded or upset over something, and don't want to/don't know how to address it. (or that we don't think we can reply without insulting you/blowing up/etc.)
So yeah- think about our silence, the reason may be plain- and your first assumption really should be that we're busy unless you can find something that likely offended us. |
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JoJo
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| 09/08/2008 11:08 PM |
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Hm yeah!
So what happens when the girl might have offended the guy?
Like in my case, I said to this guy
"My brother's copying you, its so funny! Like he's hood rattin' it up!"
He said "Hood rattin it up?"
and I said "Yeah, you know, Acting like he's black (my bro's real white) because he thinks you act that way..." (The guy my bro was copying is white too...)
i wasnt meaning I thought he acted that way, but the way I put it, did it sound like I meant it that way, and would he get offended by it? If so, How do you apoligize for something like that? |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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SO1
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| 02/03/2009 7:08 PM |
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| how old was the kid? i would definitely say it Dpends on his age. |
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JoJo
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| 02/03/2009 10:46 PM |
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| HAHA my brother, or the dude? My brother is 17 and the guy he was copying is now 19... so yeah... |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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SO1
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| 02/04/2009 1:00 PM |
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i meant ur bro's friend. by now he has probably 4goten about it. and if he's tryin 2 be a gangsta he MIGHT OF took that as a compliment, but who knows. at least i would've. but i'm definitely NOT a gangsta (no offence 2 any gangstas). i wouldn't worry about it if I were u.
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JoJo
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| 02/04/2009 7:24 PM |
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LOL thats good!
yeah, he has talked to me since, so I guess he wasnt too offended  |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.
God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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