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Cerno4500
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| 08/11/2009 3:36 PM |
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What does it mean when a girl asks questions toward a guy if he likes another girl. I ask this because I was talking to a girl I know ( we'll call her Girl A), and out of no where she started asking me if I thought girl in our previous class was hot. (We'll call her Girl B). Girl A asked me if I would like to kiss Girl B. She asked me if I thought Girl B was hot. Next she asked me do I want Girl B's phone number. She then said that I loved Girl B. When I don't even talk to Girl B. I can care less about Girl B. (I'm not conceited or anything)
In middle of her questions I asked if she was hiding something from me. She ignored my question and went on asking hers.
What's going on here. Any answers, especially from girls.
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David
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| 08/11/2009 5:18 PM |
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Yeah... I know I'm not a girl but I'll answer anyways.
Sounds like Girl A likes you and was too nervous to talk to you herself. Of course, far be it for me to fully comprehend the inscrutably perplexing thing known as the female cranium. For all I know it could mean anything. Girls are strange and mysterious like that. |
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Aim at heaven and you will get earth thrown in. Aim at earth and you get neither.
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Adelynn
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| 08/11/2009 5:25 PM |
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She was maybe asking these questions because "girl b" wanted to know the answers, or she ("girl a") wanted to know the answers herself. Or perhaps even a "girl c" wanted to know and "girl a" decided to ask you. She probably wanted to know because either she (or the other girl) likes you and is trying to figure out where you stand, or she was just trying to figure out who you like (girls do that to each other, so she might be treating you the way she would treat her gfs), or she was trying to be nosey.
That's all I can think of, because I don't even think in a way that would have any thought of asking a guy anything beyond "Do you like her?" and only if I knew him really well. |
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JoJo
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| 08/11/2009 5:43 PM |
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HAHA yes it's pretty confusing cuz girls can have so many reasons why they'd do that...
when i was the "girl a" once, I knew the guy liked my friend and we were trying to set them up together, though my friend kinda liked this other guy who was a complete jerk...  so yeah... i donno. but I agree with adelynn. as of now, I'd never do that again |
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JoJo
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| 08/11/2009 5:43 PM |
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| *never do that again, meaning I'll never do the whole "girl a" thing again |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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Cerno4500
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| 08/11/2009 9:21 PM |
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I think David pretty much nailed it and I really appreciate the responses from the girls. But David can you elaborate on being "too nervous to talk to me herself". just want to know what you mean?
Later into the conversation ( the whole conversation was on aim by the way) after I finally got her response for my question. She said " Idk, I was just asking". Considering the response I had to take it lightly. You see during school when I was about to make a call on my cell, she took my phone right from my hand so I had to go and chase her for it. And during one of our classes I noticed she had one of my business cards for my book placed inside her folder. She had a lot of papers inside there and I distributed my business cards two months before and the business card was placed in front of her papers.. I didn't actually give her one. Not that I wouldn't . lol (She didn't noticed me glancing either). And just recently I met one her friends that I know. He said was getting a text from your girl (Girl A). I didn't know what he meant by that. Now in my mind when he said that I was thinking " My girl? We're not even going out". So my question is does girl A like me?
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David
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| 08/11/2009 10:07 PM |
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Well, if a girl (particularly a girl in young to mid-teens) likes you, she will want you to like her, causing her to be very self-aware in your presence ("Do I look cool?" "Do I look pretty?" "I hope I don't do or say something stupid..." you get the idea), causing her a certain level of anxiety. Thus, she gets nervous around you and might ask one of her friends to find out if you like her.
I had another thought as to a possible explanation that (I think) you've already hit on. It's possible that the girl doing the asking is the real one who likes you and she was just trying to figure out who you like. Maybe she's secretly jealous of the friend she asked you about and figured you would like the friend over her.
Girls... Man. They can act so crazy sometimes. |
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emilyjanelle
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| 08/13/2009 9:59 AM |
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wow... okay, this girl is nuts! those questions, girls, NEVER EVER EVER ask! if you ever want a guy to be scared out of his pants of you, ask them! goodness gracious...
the guy I like (and he likes me alot back) is pretty popular with the ladies. (long story short, before he was saved, he was very much a ladies man, so his un-saved "friends" and aquaintances still assume he is, because he's only been saved 2 years.) we just had this conversation last night, about how he feels inadequate for me (since I've been saved for years and he sees me as "perfect" in many ways), and he feels weak and undeserving of me most of the time.
my point is, what better way to make a guy feel inadequate, if you want to get to know him, by asking him about ANOTHER girl who doesn't even exist in his mind! I hardly ever, ever (unless there's a really ligit reason) ask my guy friend about his girl friends because I trust him and know that God has changed him from what he was. this girl has really dug her own grave, Cerno. |
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