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Joy

Posts:26

09/11/2009 10:09 PM
Hey everyone! So I'm new on this online forum and I have a question that maybe some of you can give me an answer to... Okay so I have never had a boyfriend, which is fine with me, however there is this guy that I have liked snce the begining of my freshmen year. He was a senior. Well now he's a freshmen in college and I am a sophomore in high school. Anyway Im curious as to what you guys think. Should i tell him I like him...or...anyway we are going to a concert for Skillet next month and we really havent hung out that much. I invited some of my friends to go (how weird would it be for just us to go? Akward!) Anyway...curious about what you have to say....

David

Posts:499

09/11/2009 11:21 PM
How exactly did you and he end up planning to go to the Skillet concert together? Did he invite you?

Aim at heaven and you will get earth thrown in. Aim at earth and you get neither. - C.S. Lewis

Joy

Posts:26

09/13/2009 6:09 PM
I told him about it and a few days later he asked if I was still going. He said he would go with me.

Joy

Posts:26

09/16/2009 10:17 PM
And this actually remeinded me of another question..... My friends all see me as the goody goody as the group and that can get VERY annoying. When i asked them why they said it was because I 'never show any skin'. Or 'I dont wear clothes that show off my body'. So I said the reson I didnt is because I didnt want to tempt any of the guys into lustful thinking. But then that got me thinking. Can i not dress like that and still be considered attractive? Anyway Im interested on your opinions. Oh, if you still want to answer the question for the concert thing feel free to! Im still wondering about that too....

Adelynn

Posts:516

09/18/2009 9:45 AM
I think that sounds like a lot of fun!!! (I'm sooo jealous by the way, I wanted to go in October but I can't afford the whole trip, I live kind of far away) I think you should go as friends, and unless he says otherwise, assume he sees you as a friend. I don't think it would be wrong for you to bring up the DTR talk, if you feel comfortable, but if this is the first time you'll see him in a while then you probably should just go as friends and have a great time!!!!!!! I definitely think that it's possible to be attractive without showing off your skin. I'm not a guy, but I think that there is an elegant/nice attractive and a sexy/sensual attractive. While the second isn't a bad thing, it's not something we need every guy we meet to feel about us... that's kind of something that only our own husbands should feel about us gals... So don't let it bother you that your friends tell you that!! It's a compliment =]

"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic

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