CowCud1992
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| 01/12/2010 11:29 PM |
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Thanks so much Tess! I definitely agree with you. I have prayed a lot about it and God really does seem to want me to take the next step. I think she is actually holding out on me so im going to make a move soon. Should I establish the relationship or just ask her on a date? |
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Cerno4500
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| 01/12/2010 11:47 PM |
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hey man, here's this short video to help you. it sure helped me.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RmTxr7OsPj0 |
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CowCud1992
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| 01/13/2010 12:59 AM |
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| Dude that video is amazing. I showed it to my whole family and they all loved it! in fact my mom is using it in her teaching curriculum now!!!!! p.s. Tess I can't believe you live in New Zealand! Its sooo pretty there. I would love to go there!!!!! |
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TessyKate
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| 01/13/2010 5:06 AM |
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Wow that clip was incredible! So anyways, seeing as you are abviously quite comfortable hanging out and chatting to each other - I would probably be more comfortable as the girl if you started to define the relationship a bit more. Directly asking her on a date might make it a bit awkward (even if she does really like you) and you dont want this to happen. Start by appearing more interested in her - how you would with a GF over a friend. Do you already have one on one discussions with her heaps - talking about your views of relationships hyperthetically while still friends is a good way to find out what she is hoping to get (and give) from one. Then if she seems to be comfortable with the added intimacy (not too much though ) Then maybe ask her out to do something casual that you know she will really enjoy (bush walk, paintball, fishing, baking???!) and ask her then, when she is in her comfort zone, what she thinks about the idea of you guys taking your friendship up to the next level (getting to know each other better).
I hope this helps (Im not an expert... Just a girl!) Oh and I agree, New Zealand is incredibly amazing!!!!
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Trust in the LORD with all of your HEART!!! |
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AllieRay
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| 01/13/2010 9:39 AM |
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| Hey for anyone who cares im from ohio... boring old southern ohio... where we get excited when its time for the county fair... Oh and btw, im with clare, and nate and all the other people who say Go for it! if you really do have feelings for her, i think its great! |
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Why do we go with the flow
Or take an easier road?
Why are we playin' it safe?
Love came to show us the way
Love is a chance we should take
I'm movin' out of the way
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Cerno4500
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| 01/13/2010 6:33 PM |
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| You can do it awesome. Encourage yourself and always press forward. |
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Cerno4500
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| 01/13/2010 6:33 PM |
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| You can do it awesome. Encourage yourself and always press forward. |
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CowCud1992
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| 01/14/2010 12:54 AM |
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| TessyKate thanks for the great advice!! Yeah i do talk to her one on one sometimes and it always goes well. I have been trying to get a chance when im alone with her but we are constantly surrounded by our other friends. lol. Except for one day i totally blew it. I think she was specifically trying to get us alone and i was like, "oh ive got to leave now" like a complete dimwitted person of the male sex. lol. anyway i am definitely probably going to define the relationship and be up front just let her know i like her. I really am almost positive she likes me back so i feel good! But that does NOT stop me being nervous as heck!!! any how all is well and Cerno thanks for the motivation I will push on through!!! |
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CowCud1992
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| 01/14/2010 12:56 AM |
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| and Allie I think everyone cares. it may seem like CA is the best place ever but its just like normal life (ok maybe it is a little better) anyway good luck out there and enjoy the FAIR!!! p.s. fairs are super fun |
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AllieRay
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| 01/14/2010 9:21 AM |
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haha yeah fairs are very fun |
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Why do we go with the flow
Or take an easier road?
Why are we playin' it safe?
Love came to show us the way
Love is a chance we should take
I'm movin' out of the way
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Lost get found by Britt Nicole |
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AllieRay
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| 01/14/2010 9:21 AM |
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| haha yeah fairs are very fun |
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Why do we go with the flow
Or take an easier road?
Why are we playin' it safe?
Love came to show us the way
Love is a chance we should take
I'm movin' out of the way
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Lost get found by Britt Nicole |
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clare
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| 01/16/2010 4:26 PM |
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I laugh every time I read your name "Dafishydude!" lol that's good. Hey no offense, but up here in WA some people are hostile to people from CA! I think parts of CA are fun, but I'm not into big cities! Hay at least you have a fair Allie, around here it's the Indian festivals and big drinking and parties. Lots of drug busts too. And mean dogs. And in out town we have junk stores pawn shops and a few parks. All the stores close at 10:00!
Anyway that was off subject! Excuse my random input there! |
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CowCud1992
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| 01/17/2010 4:40 PM |
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| hahaha yeah im glad you like it!!! haha. anyways yeah i know what you mean. I really would hate to live in a big city. In Vista where i live its more like suburbs kinda. Its nice but i want to live in the country like virginia or something. I love countryside. I would love to live on a ranch that would be sweet! and no worries, like everyone is suspicious of Californians. They often come off as extremely liberal and spoiled. (im conservative) anyhow when people find out your from California they imagine surfer dudes with blonde hair and they kinda glare at you ahahhaha. (i kinda fit that. oh well) |
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nateynate
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| 01/18/2010 1:21 PM |
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Ha well clare, maybe were just better in South Cali  haha just kiding i know a couple kids on my team from washington ha they love it down here and Tessy, New Zeland dang thats far haha ive always wanted to go their and liz if you wanna stock me go right ahead haha im cool  but dafishydude let us know how it all goes alright man |
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" Wake up oh my soul
wake up and praise the Lord
rise up you sleepy soul
rise up and praise the Lord"
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CowCud1992
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| 01/18/2010 2:05 PM |
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| i will thanks! im just waiting right now. i can't ask her until after Junior Exhibition( a seven to ten minute speech im doing on Marine Biology) and Finals, but hopefully within the next week or two. |
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LOGHANDI
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| 01/20/2010 12:07 AM |
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Fishy, I think you totally should go for it after your jr. ex thing and finals. Just think, you dont want to wait too long and have her think of you just as a "good friend" because she waited too long...i have had that happen. SO TOTALLY GO FOR IT ASAP!
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"When excellence is available, good is not enough" |
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CowCud1992
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| 01/20/2010 12:14 AM |
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| ive heard that so many times from you Loghandi. thanks for the advice though!! |
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LOGHANDI
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| 01/20/2010 12:35 AM |
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you know it Bi!!
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"When excellence is available, good is not enough" |
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clare
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| 01/23/2010 11:52 PM |
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| You guys crack me up! I'm kind of glad my best friend doesn't come on here. She did once, but if I'd rather talke to her under different circumstances! |
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Cerno4500
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| 01/24/2010 4:15 PM |
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| Hey DaFishyDude, sometimes you gotta let God do what you can't do. Let him be the deciding factor and let yourself be the best that you can be. |
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