Liz
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| 01/27/2010 2:54 PM |
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BTW, Where is Mr. A? I kind of liked "arguing" with him.  |
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A girl should be so lost in God that a guy has to go in Him in order to find her |
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TessyKate
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| 01/27/2010 3:40 PM |
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| Wow.... long time no see!!!! So, Danny.... Good job!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wish more guys were like you. It takes a lot of courage to take that step forward and ask a girl out and Im sure she is glad that you finally got around to it Anyways, I reckon you are defiantly making progressions in ur relationship here and even if she has said you're only friends for now.... its probably only to cover her own back incase it doesnt work out?? Just an idea? Well anyway, I pray that God will bless you heaps in your adventure |
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Trust in the LORD with all of your HEART!!! |
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Cerno4500
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| 01/27/2010 5:24 PM |
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| Yup TessyKate has a great point. |
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CowCud1992
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| 01/27/2010 6:50 PM |
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| Thanks guys for being so supportive its great!!! And Tess thats what i hope and it kinda seems like. i sure hope but either way im looking forward. and Liz i would NEVER ask a girl out on a date over texting. EVER. I said i was going to ask her to talk over texting then when we were together alone ask her, and that's what i did because i couldn't find a good time to ask to talk later. It worked out great though. except for my nerves hahah |
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CowCud1992
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| 01/27/2010 6:51 PM |
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| and Cerno thanks for being a motivator. i always think of that video when im going to do something out of my comfort zone and it helps me drive forward |
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Cerno4500
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| 01/27/2010 7:03 PM |
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| Hey man its no problem at all. its what i love to do. i hope u have a great time with her. |
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CowCud1992
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| 02/06/2010 10:41 PM |
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| So, went on it. Nothing special. More like a hangout than anything. I don't think im going to ask her on another one. I'm just going to leave it. Whatever. I'm done for now. |
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Grant I.
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| 02/06/2010 10:55 PM |
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| Aw shucks. Sorry man! Better luck next time I guess! |
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CowCud1992
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| 02/08/2010 12:51 AM |
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| Thanks Grant. I just feel like she left me so confused after all this. I have no idea what to think. I wish girls weren't so complicated. |
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Grant I.
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| 02/08/2010 6:57 AM |
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| Heh, yep, I heard that! |
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Liz
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| 02/08/2010 1:14 PM |
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Here's a quote from a book @ my grandma's house:
"If men weren't so simple, women wouldn't have to be so complicated"
I know, not very nice. :^)
I suppose you guys could switch it around, cuz we thing you're complicated too. :^) |
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A girl should be so lost in God that a guy has to go in Him in order to find her |
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clare
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| 02/08/2010 5:20 PM |
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| Well you tried, and at least you aren't still wondering what she thinks. I probably sound like a miserable comforter. Sorry it didn't work out. God will bring someone more special for you. |
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CowCud1992
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| 02/08/2010 11:27 PM |
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| i am still wondering what she thinks because she sent me soooooo many mixed messages!!!!!!! i have absolutely no idea. Its stinks!!!!! and Liz i believe that comment is quite true. |
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Adelynn
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| 02/09/2010 9:32 AM |
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I think guys are complicated to understand.... I'm usually good at reading body language, but there are so many times guys will say or do something and I never saw it coming.
Just thought that I'd throw that out there... =) |
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"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic |
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Nicole
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| 04/25/2010 3:44 AM |
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Since I haven't been on FYWO for quite a while now I have a few things to say to DaFishyDude- Danny- you have my admiration for never asking a girl out via text message; I'm glad it was a success with the girl!  And I hope it all goes well next time. |
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whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it's time to pause and reflect -Mark Twain |
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Bea
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| 05/07/2010 6:42 PM |
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why don't you ask her, how she found that date and if she could ever consider you as sth. more?...or you could ask a girlfriend. I know, that when I don't get a guy and want to be nice to them, I ask my two best-guy-friends. That helps me a lot. I still think she likes you. A lot of girls are just shy and think too much. I sometimes tend to overthink stuff. I think she just wanted to make sure, she didn't get her hopes up to early. Try to ask her, if you could have a single date with her.
Guess what, I am from Germany and I've never been to CA, although I would really love to. I've been to South Carolina some years ago. |
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CowCud1992
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| 05/09/2010 11:56 PM |
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Thanks for the comments guys!!! Man, it has been ages since ive been on here. A lot has happened since that time. So just to fill some of you guys in, that girl and i never went on any other more personal outing, and honestly i do not believe God wants me to be in a relationship and i had to learn the hard way. Since the date i didn't talk very much to her for quite a while because it did not go very well. Later though i continued to talk with her and my feelings have dwindled considerably, don't get me wrong she is an amazing and incredibly great girl but i have suppressed my feelings due to other things that need my attention. I also fairly recently got her and some other friends extremely angry with a couple of my other guy friends doing a prank!  that did not turn out the way i had imagined it! hahahah for some reason though this girl held me fully responsible and was disappointed in me and none of the other guys really, which furthered my belief that she liked me. Since then i patched everything up and we are now friends again, but less close. and much of my flirting and stuff has disintegrated and turned to just being merely friends. Those feelings are still there though, they just lay dormant. I limit my time around her and don't open myself up too much. It has worked out great so far, and i believe it is exactly how the Lord wants it to be at this moment in my life!!! All is going well!!! I appreciate the comments Nicole and Bea
p.s. Bea that's so cool that you live in Germany! If you ever get the opportunity you should try to come to CA it is awesome! and BEAUTIFUL weather and ocean!!! |
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CowCud1992
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| 06/20/2010 11:28 PM |
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| gosh. getting over someone is flipping HARD!!! |
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Grant I.
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| 06/21/2010 10:22 PM |
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| Ouch. Sorry man! I liked this one girl for about 2 years, I think she kinda liked me a li'l bit, then her big sister did a very good job of getting her to not like me. I gotta say, I did some dumb stuff at the time, but oh well. It took me about another 2 years to really get over her and be back to good friends. We're all cool now, she got married a couple months ago, I parked cars at her wedding, and sat by her and her husband at another friend's wedding on Saturday. It's all cool now. I know that don't sound real encouraging, but the end result was good. I got over her, she married the man she wanted, and I like a girl that I'm pretty sure I would be much happier living with than her anyway. Just remember that God knows what he's doing, and that even though He allows some pretty heart-wrenching crap to go on in our lives, it makes us stronger, and better able to handle other situations later on in life. I wouldn't be the same person I am now if it weren't for that relationship, even though nothing ever became of it. I believe that everything that happens to us as we follow Christ happens for a reason, and is all building up to the great plan that He has for us in the end. It's awfully hard to see that until something good finally happens, but looking back on my life, most of the bad things that happened(there were plenty) wound up making my life better later on. Life is gonna suck for a while, there's no getting around that, and I'll pray for you that it goes as quickly as possible, but hang in there, and turn your focus toward God, and ask Him to show you what/who/when/how you should do/ask, etc. Sorry bud! |
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**Jes :-)
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| 06/30/2010 8:52 PM |
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yep man you got that right. God allows things to come in to your life that it burns at times! lately i have felt as tho someone could have shot me in the foot and i would not have felt any worst than i do now! but hey in the end i hope all will turn out good. i read the story about how the angel appears to the man(can't think of the name right now ) and tells them that they will have a baby, but he doesn't wanna believe it. and he becomes dumb. all because he didn't believe. and then later when they want to name the baby he writes that its name is suppose to be john and he is able to speak again.
it just came to my mind how all he did wrong was NOT believe and he became dumb, and if we don't believe then what could happen to us? just made me realize i needed to believe and trust things would turn out good. even tho it is kinda hard right now!! |
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