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Becky
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| 01/15/2010 5:02 PM |
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so this guy is in my weights class and the very first day i saw him and though he was gorgeous, but i didnt think he would notice me, so i didnt really pay attention to him, but theni saw him looking at me alot, and so i was like "okay, maybe he does think i'm cute" i kept wanting to talk to him, but i had no idea what to say to him. then he were jump roping and he said to me how he sucks at jump roping and i laughed at him because i was all giddy that he talked to me and i didnt know what to say. and after that he didnt talk to me or look at me for quite a while, so i figured, maybe he thinks i dont liehim or he doesnt like me anymore, so i just went on with life. recently hes looking at me a lot again and almost every day he tries to talk to me, like i feel like he wants to talk to me really bad, but at the same time i'm really confused why and what his motives are, since i know hes dating this other girl, but he doesnt know that i know about it, so i just dont know what to do because i feel like he is a really nice, good guy, but i am just confused... |
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"In the same way let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in Heaven"
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Billiam
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| 01/15/2010 9:12 PM |
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guys tend to over think think things alot. when he made a joke and you laughed he might have waited for you to start a converstation. he might have felt that you thought he was dumb or not funny and withdrew immedialty and now hes trying again. i say give him the benefit of the doubt. there are alot of dumb guys out there but most are really trying. so i would talk to him alot and make conversation  hope that helps |
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AllieRay
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| 01/15/2010 9:55 PM |
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ok. I do sorta have some experience in this dept... sorta. There were these 3 guys that went to our church (only one still does) and we went on a youth retreat to a place that was like a 4 hour drive away. So on the way up we ("we" being the guys and me and my best friend) didnt talk a whole lot, when we were there we talked a little, but on the way home, we talked and laughed the ENTIRE ride! it was great! So i stayed all nite iwth my friend the nite we got home, a saturday. So on sunday we were really excited to talk to them and stuff. But when we got to sunday school, they all acted like they didnt even know us. i guess we too could have tried harder to talk to them but they really wouldnt give us the time of day! It was kinda sad! and now i am friends with them on a certain social networking site... lol and i try to talk to the only one im friends with sometimes and he acts like we dont even know each other. So to answer your question, I think guys are really comfortable in situations where, their friends arent around or just some elements of the place makes them feel comfortable, but then when they get around other guys, or whatever, they kinda just clam up. i sorta agree with Billiam, in that you want to try to talk to him, but obviously since you havent known him very long, it wouldnt be a huge loss if he didnt talk back. I know its hard, especially when they are hot! haha but you dont want him to think you are annoying! Wow that was a REALLY long post  |
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Why do we go with the flow
Or take an easier road?
Why are we playin' it safe?
Love came to show us the way
Love is a chance we should take
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Becky
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| 01/16/2010 2:45 AM |
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| hey, thanks for the tip, it is difficult to talk to him because he is attractive, but i will try a little harder and who knows what will happen |
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"In the same way let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in Heaven"
Matthew 5:16 |
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Adelynn
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| 01/16/2010 6:41 PM |
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| Guys can be as insecure as we are. If you don't give him hints that you are interested, he'll think that you aren't and he won't waste his time (though "hints" are defined differently by everyone). It's hard when you're nervous around someone and that may make it hard for you to talk to him, but he doesn't see it that way, he will see you not continuing the conversation to mean that you aren't interested in continuing the conversation. |
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"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic |
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smileybookworm
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| 01/16/2010 7:16 PM |
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| i wouldn't persue him if you know that he has a girlfriend |
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Jesus has a thing for losers.
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