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Beckah

Posts:896

01/21/2010 5:25 PM
ok so I know this one nice guy (not a Christian yet) and we are just friends..(and i don't hug him)lol but latley i think he has been flriting with me, and im not interested in him. I just want to be friends. i don't want to hurt his feelings or anything,ya know? i guess i dont know wat do. so any advice would be nice.

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Liz

Posts:341

01/21/2010 7:06 PM
If he's really persistant and it gets annoying I'd say get your dad to tell the guy to get lost. Dad's can be so helpful...mostly because they're so intimidating.!

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LOGHANDI

Posts:21

01/21/2010 8:25 PM
On a less intimidating note, if he is not being so bad but kind of getting annoying i would say to nicely take him to the side and tell him you are not interested. Don't worry, if you say it in a nice way us guys (usually) don't take it so bad. If you pulled me aside and told me I would for sure stop pursuing and hopefully stay friends. hope this helps in anyway

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Beckah

Posts:896

01/21/2010 8:31 PM
wats really weird is that im older than him...

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wjr1991

Posts:232

01/21/2010 8:44 PM
If you're blunt but nice, he will probably be somewhat crushed, but his feelings won't be permanently hurt. Especially if you make a point of telling him you think he's a really nice guy, you're just not "interested" Kinda what Loghandi said And it's not necessarily weird that he's younger. Just ask Jojo ;-)

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AllieRay

Posts:82

01/21/2010 9:34 PM
Ahh i am going thru the exact same thing right now (except he is a christian and he is older!) and one thing i have kinda done, is just let it run its course. Ya know, not leading him on or anything! dont lead guys on! its baddd.. really bad.. but just be friends. But if it does get pretty awkward or annoying or whatever, have your dad or brother or whatever tell him off.. in a good way. it might be imbarassing, but it will all work out in the end! hope my advice works!

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