luke
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| 01/27/2010 10:07 PM |
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| Do girls find it "atractive" when a guy plays music? I play the guitar. and I LOVE to play contemparary gospel. |
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Luke 6:48, (THE MESSAGE) "If you work the words into your life, you are like a smart carpenter who dug deep and laid the foundation of his house on bedrock. When the river burst its banks and crashed against the house, nothing could shake it; it was built to last.
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Liz
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| 01/27/2010 10:10 PM |
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Well, I guess i just answered this on the other one,but that's OK 
It all depends on the person. Me...I'm really into music, so I probably would. Others aren't. It really depends on who you're talking about.
Welcome to the site Luke! |
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A girl should be so lost in God that a guy has to go in Him in order to find her |
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luke
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| 01/27/2010 10:18 PM |
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| Thanks! and by the way, i really love that song by brandon heath |
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Luke 6:48, (THE MESSAGE) "If you work the words into your life, you are like a smart carpenter who dug deep and laid the foundation of his house on bedrock. When the river burst its banks and crashed against the house, nothing could shake it; it was built to last.
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Liz
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| 01/27/2010 10:27 PM |
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| YEAH! I heard it for the first time a couple days ago and LOVED it! I think Brandon Heath and Lincoln Brewster are my favorite artists, but don't ask me to name any songs, I do not have a memory for that. I only know I like songs by them. |
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A girl should be so lost in God that a guy has to go in Him in order to find her |
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Adelynn
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| 01/28/2010 8:28 AM |
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Randomly, have you heard Grace Like Rain by Todd Agnew (I think I spelled the name correctly)
Guitars used to be "the thing," and I can't honestly say that they are specifically what will get a guy my attention. I wish I could play piano and guitar well, but I'm on the lower side of average =] So I always think that it's really neat when someone can play an instrument well. |
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"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic |
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luke
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| 01/28/2010 11:13 AM |
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| Thanks. So, from what i've heard, it depends on the girl(DUHH!!!! why didn't i think of that?!?!). And Adelynn, I have heard the song, grace like rain, actually, it's one of my ringtones. |
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Luke 6:48, (THE MESSAGE) "If you work the words into your life, you are like a smart carpenter who dug deep and laid the foundation of his house on bedrock. When the river burst its banks and crashed against the house, nothing could shake it; it was built to last.
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emilyjanelle
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| 01/28/2010 1:49 PM |
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| personally, I do find it attractive (and not even a, "wow he's so hott!") when a guy takes the time to learn an instrument and really try his hardest at it. there are a few kids in my youth group (and I say kids because they're 14-16 and I'm 18, so it'd be a tad creepy if I DID like them!) who love their guitars, drums, etc. and I'm so proud of them. my boyfriend has tried his hand at the piano, and though never having lessons, can hold his own. |
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JesusRocks!
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| 01/28/2010 9:27 PM |
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| Yes! CHRISTIAN MEN ON FIRE FOR GOD PLAYING MUSIC IS GR8! I truly have a respect for men seeking God and using music to further His kingdom. |
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Beckah
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| 01/28/2010 11:06 PM |
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| I 2nd what JesusRocks said!! |
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"Check yourself before you wreck yourself" |
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Naomi
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| 01/29/2010 11:27 PM |
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| HECK yes! I find it really attractive when a guy plays an intrument. Common instruments are cool (such as guitar and drums), but what really gets me is guys who can play the piano. There aren't many young guys (15-20) that I've seen that can play the piano. It's soooo awesome, especially since I play the piano too. But any instruments are really great. |
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luke
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| 01/30/2010 4:32 PM |
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| On this site, I've only seen teens ATLEAST 15 years or older. I am only 13 years old. What should I do? Should I wait untill I am 15 to start worrying about dating? Or am I at the right age? |
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Luke 6:48, (THE MESSAGE) "If you work the words into your life, you are like a smart carpenter who dug deep and laid the foundation of his house on bedrock. When the river burst its banks and crashed against the house, nothing could shake it; it was built to last.
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Adelynn
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| 01/30/2010 5:24 PM |
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What do you think, Luke? I'm not being sarcastic, I'm truly wondering. You don't have to answer this on here, but think about what you hope to get from a dating relationship. Do you think that dating is a causal activity, or is it to find your future spouse? At what age are you going to be ready to be married? It's really really hard to be dating someone and hope to marry them one day if you still can't be married for a really long time!
Here is a cool visual I saw once: get some graph paper and, at the first line, put "0," then at the next line, put a "10," then keep going by tens until you reach 100 (are there that many lines on graph paper? Maybe tape two pieces together). Now, put an "X" at your current age, and another "x" at the age you think you'll be married by. And then look at the rest of your life... things seem so important and it seems like life is going slowly and that right here and now is important (which it is), but then look at how much time you probably have for the rest of your life!! |
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"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic |
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Beckah
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| 01/30/2010 5:25 PM |
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| personally i would wait. there is still alot of things to know about relationships, if you think about it, would you be ready to have a relationship that young? im only 16 and i haven't dated yet...this is only my opinion...im sure more ppl will have advice too..... |
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clare
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| 01/30/2010 5:32 PM |
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| I'm always impressed by someone who takes time to learn an instrument. I know I may have the talent but I don't have the patience. I might start the guitar again. See how long I hold out again! |
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luke
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| 01/30/2010 5:43 PM |
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| You do have a point, I still have alot to learn about relationships, and really whats the point when Its a LONG time untill I'm going to get married(I HAVE ALWAYS THOUGHT LIKE IN MY 30s or somethin). I guess the big thing was Peer Pressure(if thats how you spell it), pretty much all of my old friends(I homeschool now, so i don't talk to them much anymore) have dated. |
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Luke 6:48, (THE MESSAGE) "If you work the words into your life, you are like a smart carpenter who dug deep and laid the foundation of his house on bedrock. When the river burst its banks and crashed against the house, nothing could shake it; it was built to last.
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luke
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| 01/30/2010 5:44 PM |
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| This is off subject, but has anyone ever heard of, Chris Tomlin, Casting Crowns, or Steven Curtis Chapman? |
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Luke 6:48, (THE MESSAGE) "If you work the words into your life, you are like a smart carpenter who dug deep and laid the foundation of his house on bedrock. When the river burst its banks and crashed against the house, nothing could shake it; it was built to last.
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clare
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| 01/30/2010 7:22 PM |
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| Heard of them all, mom likes when they're on the radio, personally not my style!!! Have you heard the song by Mercy Me that says "when I finally make it home"? my little brother thought it said "when they find me naked at home" lol! |
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Allie
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| 01/30/2010 7:33 PM |
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Posted By Naomi on 01/29/2010 11:27 PM
...what really gets me is guys who can play the piano.
I'm with ya, Naomi! For me personally, I find it very attractive if a guy can play an instrument and especially the piano. Even better, if he can sing. I've grown up in a musical household, so it's pretty much a part of my life.
On the dating side, I'm waiting until I get go to college. Only five more months until I graduate! It's a personal preference, but I figure I shouldn't date until I'm interested in finding someone I want to spend the rest of my life with.  |
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JoJo
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| 02/03/2010 10:52 PM |
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LOL actually I just joined a group on facebook called "If you can play guitar, sing or dance, you're instantly more attractive" HAHA
I love guys who can play an instrument, though I'm not too fond of drummers... |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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Prissy
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| 02/04/2010 3:36 PM |
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I personally think its great when a guy plays music! Acctually I went so far, that I want my future husband to be able to sing nice and to play an instrument.
For me it shows that he has in some way patience and endurance.
And I need someone who plays with me music....am playing the guitare and the flute so I need a good piano player or someone that makes music.
I couldn't live without music I think....I love singing myself.
Its great when a guy plays an instrument...go for it! |
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