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Subject: Is it worth it?

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music

Posts:11

04/17/2010 7:24 PM
Is it worth waiting for the right guy to come into your life? Sometimes you feel like giving up on waiting for the right one and need encouragment!!!

clare

Posts:932

04/17/2010 8:58 PM
IT"S WORTH IT!!!! I say two jerks later...broken heart....and starting the circle that is almost impossible to stop...loving and hating the same person....regrets....ya it's worth waiting!! It's not easy waiting, and it's harder after you made mistakes with ones who weren't the right one. Ask one of my friends how often I've said I don't even think there's a right one out there for me anymore....but I know I'm going to wait and not repeat my mistakes!!

Adelynn

Posts:516

04/17/2010 10:30 PM
I do know that it's not worth it to live by making my own choices- i.e. going out and picking a guy. I'm not married or even with a guy, but I do know how awful it can be to be dating a guy who isn't who God wants for me, either because he's being called in a different direction in life or because he isn't a Christian, so he has no "purpose" (or both...). I know that I would hate to be committed to any of those guys!

"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic

**Jes :-)

Posts:154

04/18/2010 2:11 PM
i think for now it may seem like it will never happen but i think if you wait until that special someone is put in your life you will feel like it was all worth it! but ya i no what you are talking about!!

Christina

Posts:90

04/19/2010 3:40 PM
Ok so I have used this example a few times. I do think it is SOO worth it to wait. Because what better way to say to your husband, I waited for you. I cared enough about you, before I knew you to wait for you. You were worth waiting for. And how amazing would it be for you husband to be able to say that to you.

Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will recieve the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him. James 1:12

Angeli

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JoJo

Posts:1657

04/29/2010 9:27 PM
waiting is def the better answer... there is no point to dating unless you're considering marrying the guy. i havent had a proper bf, I've had developing relationships with guys... and well, even those I wish I hadnt had, cuz I got way too emotionally attached, and spent many a long night crying over stuff nd having a broken heart. It's hard, and I struggle with waiting, but I know in the end, it'll be WAY better than having gone through meaningless guys and hurting them and myself, and leaving emotional scars everywhere, cuz even if guys dont admit it, they actually do get emotionally hurt in these situations. I know a few who've basically broke down to me about how horrible they feel.

Turn up the music Turn it up loud Take a few chances Let it all out 'Cause you won't regret it Lookin' back from where you have been 'Cause it's not who you knew And it's not what you did It's how you live .-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-. God Bless! Mwah XOXO JoJo

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