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lizzy
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| 06/07/2010 6:51 PM |
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so i have a guy friend that asked me out. before that we where really good close friends, and a few days after we got together he said he was afraid to go out with me because we all ready new each other to well. and idk what to do now i really like him and i would really like it if i could help him get over the awkwardness. Is there any thing i could do to help him? 
~Lizzy
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JoJo
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| 06/08/2010 8:31 AM |
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maybe just step back from being bf and gf and be special friends. that way, you're friends, but you both know you both want to date each other, but it isn't so akward?? idk...
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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lizzy
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| 06/08/2010 4:15 PM |
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| we're both 15 |
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"Live for today in the hands of God, because tomorrow may never come" |
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JoJo
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| 06/10/2010 8:22 AM |
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yeah being special friends at your age is good. then there's not so much pressure and you can see if you two being together is something you'd like to do later on  but come on guys, what are you're oppinions?? I'll have to get on a few of their cases to answer cuz i'm curious too  |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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lizzy
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| 06/10/2010 10:24 AM |
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| ok thank you that really helps |
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"Live for today in the hands of God, because tomorrow may never come" |
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Grant I.
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| 06/10/2010 11:22 PM |
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Hmmm...sounds kinda familiar! I'm in a bit of the same situation, but not too worried about it... I'm not really sure what to say, besides try to find new things to talk about that you haven't covered before. I know, it can be kinda strange...I sorta feel like I've run out of new subjects, but if we take the relationship to the next level, it opens up a whole new world, and new things to discuss. From the sound of things, you guys have probably pretty much covered all the small talk...you could try picking each other's brain about deeper subjects like what he believes about clothing/church/family/careers, etc. You're gonna hate me for saying this, but you guys are both pretty young, so don't be in a rush to get too carried away with each other. You've got plenty of time! 
Oh, just thought of a biggie...he's a little unsure about things obviously, so a huge thing you can do for him is to reassure him that it's okay, that you want to make this work, that it's not a problem(if it isn't...), and that you respect him, and that you are glad he asked you out! I don't know what he's like, but even big tough guys have insecurities whether we openly show them or not. We need to know that our women like being with us, and actively want to be with us. If they don't, we feel like we've failed, and come up short, and that is the worst feeling that a man can have. Good luck! Who's more talkative? You or him? Sometimes you just need to turn the talker loose and let 'em air out their lungs a while! |
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lizzy
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| 06/10/2010 11:48 PM |
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thank you Grant that actually makes me feel better knowing that there is something i could do to help him. i know we are both really young and i don't hate you for reminding me that. some times i get to carried away with talking to him that i forget that I'm only 15. And that i have a lot more life ahead of me. thank you And I'm pretty sure we could find things to talk about i have fun telling him stories about me and my life and things that have happened in it so i would say that I'm the talkative one . thank you again you really made me feel better knowing that i could do something thank you Grant, and JoJo
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clare
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| 06/11/2010 10:54 PM |
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you can never run out of things to talk about you can always start an argument ok I don't advise that...but i have done that before from being so bored!haha
I like Jo's idea of just being special friends. I'm almost 20 an I have dated in the last year...but I still sometimes think I'm way to young!LOL Starting out as good friends is always the best way. You can be friends with someone for a long time, but once you start the next level of relationship...it's different! It's hard to think about dating someone for years and years; much easier thinking about being friends for a long time! |
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lizzy
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| 06/12/2010 10:32 PM |
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that is so true Clare you can never run out of things to talk about
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