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CowCud1992User is Offline

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06/20/2010 11:39 PM  
Hey guys. I have liked this girl for months and months and i ofter trying and failing to date her i am trying to get over her and move on with my life. It has been really really hard for me. I am not the one to have random crushes here and there. I really like this girl. Like deep within my heart i know she is awesome, so it's been really hard to try and kill those feelings. I just am asking basically what are some ways that can help me to deal with this? It's really hard and i get that pit in my stomach when i think about her. Thanks guys. God bless. (p.s.I am shy with my feelings whith girls and i honestly have wanted to confront her for a long time about our "date")
DavidUser is Offline

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06/21/2010 5:11 AM  
well dude a year ago i was in ur position, all that i can say is that one day u will meet another girl who u will love and those feelings will die down.
**Jes :-)User is Offline

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06/30/2010 8:45 PM  
it takes a lot of healing and time...about all i got to say about it! i no it hurts!;( been there, after having feelings for someone for about 5 years...;(
JoJoUser is Offline

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07/14/2010 7:11 PM  
I have been there too.
i'm going through one right now, and honestly, to stop being hurt, I had to completely stop talking to him or even trying to see how he is on his facebook. haha sounds stalker :P but it was only once in a while :D
I still talk to his brother, but I avoid convo's about him, hope his bro doesn't figure that out and ask questions.
But yeah. not saying you need to do this, but for me I had to kinda go cold turkey :P

Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live

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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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clareUser is Offline

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07/25/2010 1:37 AM  
yup, cold turkey was what I had to do. I tried moderate interaction, but I only got over it when I quit going on his face book, talking about him with anyone...etc. tho the other day I did look at his new profile pic, really regretted it! All I can say is it sucks, then it sucks less, then less....
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07/25/2010 6:13 PM  
I had to take him off my friends on fb, take his # out of my phone, not see him, not talk to him, not talk about him, ask God to take this guy from my thoughts and work hard at it, not look at pictures of him or anything. It was hard. But I don't actually remember how much it hurt, though I know it did- all I remember is how much I was in love with him and how happy I was at the time, though I wouldn't go back. Anyway.... ;-D

"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic
CowCud1992User is Offline

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09/09/2010 5:47 PM  
yeah thats what i have done! i have finally realized i need to quit hanging around her so thats what ive done and its really helped. I feel a ton better now its great!
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