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caleb
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| 02/08/2009 10:54 PM |
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i went to this christian camp just recently here in new zealand, its a camp for everyone (girls, guys, parents, grandparents ect.) . And there are some hot girls there, anyway one of the girls saw there i kinda liked (she was also really beatiful lol). she didnt know that i liked here and while i was there i would sit down in the main sorta outdoor part and i was sitting down and she sat directly opposite where i was sitting (like 10m - 15metres away), she did that for a days although she would did that even when i wasnt there but it was always opposite me. she would come along and sit at the tree in front of me and would peek over my book every now and then and take a glance at her lol.
what im wanting to know here is, does anyone think she might like me or is it just a coincedence (didnt know how to spell that last word, just guessing)
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do you have any tips for me (i havent talked to her before, im kinda shy in front of girls cause i dont wanna look like a fool)
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JoJo
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| 02/09/2009 8:44 PM |
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Which camp?? Was it parachute??
lol. I was @ Parachute 
haha but so were like 20,000 other people lol 
but I know girls do tend to try to sit by the guy they like, well I know I do, and it seems silly, but honest, that's what I do!!
But yeah, you'd have to look for more than just her sitting near you. like if she glances your way, or talks really loudly when you're around, or laughs at you.
Like if she's sitting near you and (like me) pretending not to notice you, and you do something funny, and she laughs... lol that's a good sign, IDK, what do you other girls think?? |
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Turn up the music
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Lookin' back from where you have been
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It's how you live
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caleb
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| 02/09/2009 10:23 PM |
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the camp is calleb "summerwine" its in toatra springs in matamata .
i was going to go to parachute this year but wanted to get back home, but will definetly go next year, maybe i'll c u there lol. |
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caleb
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| 02/09/2009 10:25 PM |
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| oops i spelt called wrong, its supposed to be a "d" at the end not a "b" sorry lol |
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Cole
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| 02/10/2009 12:04 AM |
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Ya I def agree wid wut JoJo said...if she trys to sit close to you an talks louder wen ur around that would def be a good sign... An I kno that if I like a guy I find myself watchin him all da time..so if you catch her lookin at you alot...that could mean sumthin hope this helps! |
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JoJo
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| 02/10/2009 2:01 AM |
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LOL yeah, I know Summer wine, our church wants the youth to go this year, but we went to Summer Harvest instead this year, but it was the last one ever, so we can do something else this year lol. (Summer Harvest was 28th Dec-2nd jan thats why i said this year twice lol)
But yeah...Also if she tries to talk to you. Like at camp b4 christmas, I would have gone and talked to a friend if they were in the group the guy was in, just cuz then I had an excuse to be there, and it wud be more likely he'd talk to me... |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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Cole
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| 02/10/2009 9:12 AM |
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| and if you are talkin to her an she smiles alot or laughs at things you say..even wen its not rly funny....lol. LOL..ya I do that to JoJo..talkin to other firnds just cuz he's around.. I normally feel like every1 notices me then an i'm like oops..grin |
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caleb
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| 02/28/2009 4:32 AM |
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well maybe ill see you there?
i'll put up a post closer to the time of summerwine and maybe we can meet up if your church goes. |
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caleb
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| 02/28/2009 4:32 AM |
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well maybe ill see you there?
i'll put up a post closer to the time of summerwine and maybe we can meet up if your church goes. |
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caleb
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| 02/28/2009 4:36 AM |
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| the thing is and this is the funny part, i've actually never talked to her lol. i get so nervous in front of people, i've always been the not very popular person and im not to good when it come to girls. |
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Nicole
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| 02/28/2009 8:44 PM |
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In my experience, whenever i see a guy i like, or at least think is cute, I try and find excuses to be near him and i sometimes glance at him, in an inconspicuous way of course.  I usually am REALLY shy around guys i like but i try and make small talk with them, maybe smile once in a while but I get so shy that i usually keep my distance in a place where he will at least notice i'm there.  the girl you like, Caleb, could actually be extremely shy if she's never really talked to you, but she might be wanting you to notice her without really being obvious about it. I agree with JoJo about the laughing out loud part. In my own experience I have been known to laugh or agree with just about anything the cute guy says. One tip i would give you is to smile at her once in a while, say hi to her when you pass by or sit across from each other. You could also just try and listen to what she says. I know one time, not too long ago, there was this guy that i thought was cute in my dance class, and during introductions he mentioned he was going to reenlist for the Marines; well I was interested in joining the Navy and I mentioned the Marines to him and my interest in the Navy sometime later. It was a great way to break the ice and later after class was done, he sat next to me and said, "So you've been through MEPS (military entrance processing station)?" It goes from there. Well he actually already has a girl friend, but at least we're not strangers when we do dance. Anyways, you could also try talking to God about it. |
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artyprincess
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| 03/02/2009 3:43 AM |
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I really don't think she'll mind you being shy, caleb! Shy is cute! Try to talk to her as much as you can, although don't 'stalk' her! Say hi when you pass her, or just smile. Or else, you could wear a neon sign around your neck with 'HELLO ______" (whatever her name is) and see if she notices! ;p
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caleb
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| 03/02/2009 2:07 PM |
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| thank you all for yourr replies, it is easier to suggest someone to do somthing than to really do it and heres another funny thing i dont even know her name or where she's from, i only see her once a year lol |
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caleb
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| 03/02/2009 2:08 PM |
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JoJo
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| 03/03/2009 11:18 PM |
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lol yeah... it would be cool to meet @ the camp if we end up going
yeah, I know what thats like... though normally I try to find out the guy's name lol.
Although, this recent guy I like, I didnt have to find out his name, he talked to me... and introduced himself... lol
but yes... I know the feeling of seeing the person only once a year. I used to have that with one guy, but everyyear, we tried to talk a little, though it wasnt too succussful, cuz we were both shy, but at least we tried to talk
Just keep trying I guess lol. but be calm and casual (or appear so lol. it's ok to freak out inside, I know i do lol ) |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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